Speechless

Ess_Emm · November 21, 2015, 4:11pm

Re: Speechless

I haven’t written in a while. I understood the advice each one of you gave. I decided to be patient. Not whine. And to let go of things and love.
Things were going well for us.. Then suddenly his friend told him there is a rave in Lahore. ( Dance party where people take ecstacy and dance all night) and he wanted to go.. Firstly I don’t like him going to parties like that esp without me.
Secondly it was my friends wedding in the same dates and he was dancing and he had previously committed to going with me.

When he told me about the rave..I told him he’s a married man he knows what he should do. He insisted I give my feedback.. So I told him 1 it’s almost a month till we get married so he should not be doing things that hurt me to a huge extent. He realises that they are not a good thing. Anyway I told him that he committed with my friends to dance it will be too embarrassing for me. After a long argument he said he will decide. I said ok..
Next day he messaged saying he’s not going. I was happy about it. Then I called him confirm my booking of room for the walima as it’s in a different city (same city as the rave but parallel dates) ( I asked him a night before to book the room as before I wasn’t sure where I’d stay) he said he had already booked the room for rave for himself and friends. He’s not going but his friends are n they want the booking so I can’t cancel it.. I said where will I stay? He said I can’t be so selfish that I’d kick my friends out. They can’t sleep on the road. I got hurt and I said your wife will sleep on the road and hung up.
After that he messaged me that he’s not coming for today’s dance practice. I said ok.. And then he said I’m not appreciative enough. He’s not my slave. I’m leaving my house that’s normal every girl does that.
I replied that I never said your my slave. And I am very grateful to you. And you don’t know now a girl feelings when she’s leaving her home for another family.
He didn’t reply.. At night I called him once he said he’ll call later and then messaged that we will only fight because he’s upset about rave. I told him I never forced him to stay.
Anyway at night I was feeling very shaken by the hotel comments.. I messaged him that I’m very hurt because I’m his wife and he should prefer where a girl will stay regardless of who she is over a guy. Guys can stay anywhere. I told him I’m shocked and no not contact me. When I woke up he messaged that I’m selfish I want to ruin his friendship. He didn’t go to rave and mein bakwas na karon. My friends are not even his ****. He won’t come on the mehndi unless I apologize and beg him I didn’t reply. Aroundy7 mehndi time he started calling I didn’t pick I had friends around and I didn’t want to talk to him. He said alot of fuk to me in messages and told me if I don’t pick we r done. I didn’t respond.
At night when I got home I called him he was asleep and didn’t pick up.
He messaged me to fuk off and he doesn’t want to talk to me and he won’t come on barat. And I better not be tagged in any fb pictures otherwise he will write bad comments.

Please comment. I have no energy to understand or comprehend.

LMAO! I have to hand it to you. I think this is the best thread you could have come up with, compared to your other pages worth threads you’ve started in the past. Very entertaining.

Sorry to correct you Paheli, but she’s been nikahfied for like 7 years and her rukhsati is in a month. OP’s the one who’s had a problem with buying her own bedroom set, and wasn’t happy that she would get the smallest room in the house with no closets at all.