Re: Speechless
You have been married barely a month. This should be the honeymoon phase and this is how he’s acting? He’s already verbally abusive to you and has resorted to emotional blackmail in order to get what he wants.
Honestly, I think you need to tell your parents exactly what happened, pack your bags and go to their home. Send your husband an e-mail politely letting him know that you will not stay in a situation where you are being verbally abused. Let him know that when he is ready to discuss the situation in a mature manner, without name calling and threats, he should contact you and the two of you will talk. And let him know that he really needs to think about his priorities and if he thinks his friends come before you, then you two need to discuss the future of this marriage. If you choose to continue staying with him without insisting that this issue get resolved, that will give him the impression that it’s ok to treat you like crap b/c you will put up with it and it will only get worse.
There are BIG warning signs for you. Please sort this out before he gets worse and/or you get pregnant.