Speechless

Re: Speechless

How do you know for sure that she is trolling? I don’t think she is and I’ve read her former posts. Truth is sometimes stranger than fiction. I am inclined to believe that when a member also seeks advice outside of the threads, then they’re likely not trolling. High horse? Horse to door ki baat hai; I am not fit to even ride a donkey, lol. Mohtarma, I don’t think that my character is superior to yours. I am no farishta. I’ve made my fair share of slip-ups on the forum; you can go looking for my idiocies if you’d like and you’ll find many. I didn’t assume that you thought she “deserved” her predicament. However, in a general way, I did say that even if a reader thought that OP was partly to blame for the mess she’s in due to her poor decisions and judgment (as reflected in her former threads), it’s still more disturbing than funny that things are this bad with a valima around the corner. She said that she’s tried to implement the advice people gave her, but I think this recent scenario is something that even she didn’t see coming.

I am not “defending” her. Defending Op would mean showing support or solidarity for her actions and I have not done that in this thread. I just gave her suggestions which were along the same lines as Paheli.

But what are you defending? Are you defending your open expression of finding entertainment in her predicament? Is it an achi baat, or is it a sahi andaaz? Is the choice of words proper, sensitive, or beneficial? If you believe it is all of these things, then great. In that case my apologies; maybe my sense of humor is impaired and needs fixing among other things.