Just a question that often passes through my mind and makes me think about it more with joy than anything else. I day dream for hours and hours and it takes me very little time to reach a conclusion. Today I thought why not to listen to some different opinions on the matter.
I know that the best age for a guy to get married is around 28 plus. You can say its ideal age for him to get settled in his job, establish a home and life.
But I know, these days its not the case. So many guys, so many on GS, including me have this wild desire to be the man himself Sean Connery.
Now question: though you all want to get married, its natural desire, what would be like to spend all your time as a bachelor, hooking up with women randomly, jet setting across the globe and spending all your energy and desires on making sure you are happy with out any true worries or commitment?
Have you ever thought or prepared yourself for such a beautiful dream???
What if you have to live your life all alone, no whining woman at your heels. You can just kick out after a few hours, saying you are travelling…which you could very well be???
What if you will not get the chance to rejoice all those relations i.e. casanova, out as the life of the party, enjoy a few dozen someone specials, whom you can call you own as your desire and then get a new model, in your life which are obviously only attached to enjoying life to the fullest, fulfilling all your dreams and desires?
You can smell can’t you? The utter freedom, the pure hedonist satisfaction, but the most important question is are you ready to live that kind of life?
There is this reality that not all of us have to get married, some remain unmarried for their entire lives and throughly enjoy themselves, experiencing life to the fullest. I have seen some examples in my own family (Well not really but it goes with the other thread).
Ever thought about this issue in this way?