Speaking to Potential Rishta

[Life01]

To your fiance/ potential rishta spouse

Is this a sin? Most people make it look like if you want to speak with the guy its bad.

This is what should happen you speak to your mum she speaks with his mother or sister ?

Really?

[SID_NY]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

I think speaking is the best way to get to know the other person. Absolutely nothing wrong in that. Its a huge life make or break decision.

I dont know anyone who may think speaking with your prospect is any bad idea. Communicate in wutever the way you can and it’ll certainly help

[Life01]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

@SID_NY

I think speaking is the best way to get to know the other person. Absolutely nothing wrong in that. Its a huge life make or break decision.

I dont know anyone who may think speaking with your prospect is any bad idea. Communicate in wutever the way you can and it’ll certainly help

I think they think that you just might be communicating for fun. The thing with talking is though and why people might think its unnecessary is that people can say anything , you only really know what a person is like after getting married to them.So what is the point of talking to them ? They ll just give you desired answers .

[SID_NY]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

@Life01

I think they think that you just might be communicating for fun. The thing with talking is though and why people might think its unnecessary is that people can say anything , you only really know what a person is like after getting married to them.So what is the point of talking to them ? They ll just give you desired answers .

Not really. I dont agree. You can find out a whole lot about other person just by communicating. Ofcourse it requires you to be smart enough to reach to the right judgement. Its no rocket science. Get to the know the other person, know their history, know their views on different topics and if you want you can always ask again to crossmatch if they are consistent.
Also remember that it’ll give you a cushion of easiness with each other and it’ll certainly help when you actually start your life together.

[Life01]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

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[Life01]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

@SID_NY

Not really. I dont agree. You can find out a whole lot about other person just by communicating. Ofcourse it requires you to be smart enough to reach to the right judgement. Its no rocket science. Get to the know the other person, know their history, know their views on different topics and if you want you can always ask again to crossmatch if they are consistent.
Also remember that it’ll give you a cushion of easiness with each other and it’ll certainly help when you actually start your life together.

Does speaking say the girl is charecterless if she questions him etc

[SID_NY]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

@Life01

Does speaking say the girl is charecterless if she questions him etc

Noo way!! Nobody can judge the character of either the girl or the guy under ANY circumstances. They both have a right to question each other and they should except when it becomes too annoying for the other person or when the person asking questions become judgemental. Otherwise its all a part of conversation and the process of getting to know each other.
Thats how trust grows. It doesnt grow on the fly among two strangers who have never spoken before.

[Life01]

re: Speaking to Potential Rishta

@SID_NY

Noo way!! Nobody can judge the character of either the girl or the guy under ANY circumstances. They both have a right to question each other and they should except when it becomes too annoying for the other person or when the person asking questions become judgemental. Otherwise its all a part of conversation and the process of getting to know each other.
Thats how trust grows. It doesnt grow on the fly among two strangers who have never spoken before.

Majority believe you should talk to their mother or sis, or thats what their mother and sis say.