how fair is it that someone who deserts you, spys on you to be able to self justify his/her deserting you, and now he/she feels entitled to think over the fact that you are speaking to people around you, as one more proof of why he/she did a good self service in leaving you.
that person could not be with you, decides to make off abruptly, but is not capable of accepting that he/she could not claim a right on you to be with him/her.
that person perhaps forgets that you are not speaking to others to find a substitute for him/her, but that you are a human being insulted and betrayed.
how would you take such a judgment against yourself by that person who leaves you but is thinking to him/herself, how bad you are that after him/her, you are able to communicate with other people?
Re: Speaking to Other people after he/she leaves you
Naaaaahhhhh
well its a bit heavy stuff for me. I do have personal examples of this kind of situation in friendships but not in relationships. So I dont know how would I react to that …
Re: Speaking to Other people after he/she leaves you
how fair is it that someone who deserts you, spys on you to be able to self justify his/her deserting you, and now he/she feels entitled to think over the fact that you are speaking to people around you, as one more proof of why he/she did a good self service in leaving you.
that person could not be with you, decides to make off abruptly, but is not capable of accepting that he/she could not claim a right on you to be with him/her.
that person perhaps forgets that you are not speaking to others to find a substitute for him/her, but that you are a human being insulted and betrayed.
how would you take such a judgment against yourself by that person who leaves you but is thinking to him/herself, how bad you are that after him/her, you are able to communicate with other people?
share your thoughts if you like.
Dushwari
Seems to me that sumbaady is jealous and trying to convince Himself/herself that he/she was right in walking outta the relationship...I'd say totally ignore him/her as he/she isnt worth your time or energy. He/she has no right to monitor who you talk/walk/or do the cha-cha with!He /she is history let him/her be!
Re: Speaking to Other people after he/she leaves you
He's just a pathetic loser trying to justify his own cowardice in leaving you. He'll always look for excuses for his behavior. Ignore it. Some people just never get over their cheapness and never take responsibility for their actions. Talking to somebody means nothing at all. And if it really had bothered him to see you with someone else, he had his chance but let it slip away. TOO BAD.
Re: Speaking to Other people after he/she leaves you
When a person decides to leave you they focus only on things which went wrong during the relationship. The good times they shared or good deeds a person did always gets ignored and are heavily outweighed by bad moments irrespective of whose fault it was.
There is a very helpless feeling to have no control over what she is saying about you behind your back. The best thing to do is avoid trying to justify yourself to others and simply move on with your life leaving the past behind.
