Re: speaking of desi women...
Dude, are you amir_pindi or just inspired by him? This seems more like a personal ad than a genuine concern.
Really heartening to see you pasting the title of "hypocrisy" on a whole nation because some girl rejected you. Precious!
Doing something wrong and being secretive about it could be indicative of fear/respect for social and religious bounds. A lot better than openly dating and being proud of it, if that is what you are aiming at.
Try hitting on some other girl, if she is interested, things will fall into place and you will be one happy high-profile highly-eligible stud.