I have this knack of attracting basturds of the greatest kind. I have recently improved my skills of sifting men with greater care and not giving the basturds the time of day. What do you do when a guy who is a real loser/basturd and has previously let you down, calls you continuously? Are you a) polite but but cut him short or b) ignore him because he really isn’t worth it? I would normally follow the (a) path but recently it hit me that such people don’t deserve any amount of respect so he can f-off for all I care. Is this harsh? To what degree do guys deserve respect? It’s slowly dawning on me that 98% of men are not worth the effort.
If all it is doing is bringing you down and making you unhappy, then move away from the situation. I guarantee you that he is only contacting you cause it swells his own ego … cause he knows you’ll listen to him regardless of the fact that he treated you like crap. Kick him to the curb … don’t answer his calls and ignore him otherwise he’ll keep hassling you and taking advantage of you.
Mehnaz you are so right, I wish I had this attitude way before, because people have actually taken such advantage of my naivite. Coco has given me similar advice and I'm really thankful for it. It's true that guys' egos depend on female attention. Well not anymore!!
Waisay I'm surprised as to why this thread is in the health&relationship forum. Is warding off guys seen as a relationship? If so cw, you should be happy by their zeal and commitment.