sorry is not the hardest wrd

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“I forgive you” is…

specially when you know you were right …

nahi ?

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to forgive is easy, to forget is hard ..

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i would say both r hard........ but first step is forgiving .... if u cant pass that stage u can never forget

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I think you should forgive, but never forget! How can you forget?

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I find that it can become a bit easier to forgive if only the other person can put their pride to the side and say "Sorry".

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i never forget. i think its stupid to.

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how ?

sometimes forgiving isnt that easy

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i find that it's easier for me to move on lighten my tense feelings
if the person says sorry. Although many times you have to move on even if you never get an apology.

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wesay

wat is the definition of "forgiving" ?

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Forgiving is like "dar-guzar karna".............letting through the door.......dropping the grudge and moving on........so that your negative feelings won't manifest themselves in negative actions toward the person.

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^ RV...what if we forgive them but still we have some bitter feelings for them...is this forgivin?? or its normal after we forgive them?

EDITED

bitter feelings means we are not same with them as we used to before...

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Do forgive, don't forget - don't lose the lesson you have learned.

It is easier to say "I forgive you", but harder to actually forgive the person. When someone asks for forgiveness, many of us feel morally obligated to 'forgive' that person. Whether or not you actually forgive them, that depends on how emotionally strong you are.

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I am not sure...

For me, I feel its easier to forgive and move on. Reason being...I have to carry the negativity and anger with me dont I? Why do that? Why be angry at someone and upset myself over it?

For me, its better to forgive and move on...just dont forget it.

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I don't find it hard to forgive someone, its more about feeling the same way about them. I tend to get really disappointed in people, no more expectations, no more positive emotions towards them. I don't carry the negativity and hate, but I can't develop any sort of bond with such people again.

Timepass - June 2013
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Sometime's the damage is such Psq that forgiving or forgetting isn't an option.. u can however 'let it go', u don't have to carry the negativity. Just saying the words "I forgive u" aren't enuff either when u don't even mean it.. if a person has caused u heartache, no matter how much u brainwash urself that u've forgiven them.. u really havn't.

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exactly.......

Timepass - June 2013
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yeah that's the same with me- i can't really forgive them because they've let me down. So i just cut it off with them- deal with them for functionality's sake, but no emotions. Most of them aren't really sorry anyway. The ones who truly are sorry find it most difficult to say so.