the younger people are ,the chances of being in relationship(s) are less?
is that the other reason why some people choose to marry younger girls or is that the other reason some parents prefer marrying their kids of at younger age so they fall in love with who they marry?
Long gone are the days when young people weren't "involved"...
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Ermm... To some extent... I mean why else do they marry off their daughters so quick? Because they dont want them to find someone for their self right? Or get pregnant?
My friends getting married this year shes 20 been with her bf for 5-6 months. And she told the parents, (his fam is totally erm.. lets say backwards) And he isnt even graduated or has a decent job to provide for them both properly. And her mum quickly said yes to the rishta and now their gonna get married. When asked why so quick? Her mum replied She might end up pregnant and cause shame on my family.
the younger people are ,the chances of being in relationship(s) are less?
is that the other reason why some people choose to marry younger girls or is that the other reason some parents prefer marrying their kids of at younger age so they fall in love with who they marry?
This question has been asked before and it has many possible answers.
1) I've heard the "younger is more pure/cleaner" reasoning. In fact, I've heard this reasoning used in regards to guys. The "younger" he is.....the more "cleaner." BUT........common sense tells you that there's no such guarantee of this. Everybody (guy or girl) has a different personality. There are girls who are in their teens and promiscuous.........and there are girls who are in their late 20s.....early 30s who haven't had any or many relationships.
2) There are parents who get their sons married to girls that are several years younger because they believe that a younger girl is more naive.........and can be molded to their ways. That she will be more obedient and less taiz.
3) Reproduction issues. Conceiving can get trickier for women as they get older. This is also another reason I've heard mentioned.
4) I've also heard the reasoning that women age faster (having children, etc)........and a younger wife will be more youthful/attractive looking.
Have you seen the drama, Malal? The idiot Danish's.......even bigger idiot mother (ooooh, I wanna slap her)............discourages him from marrying a woman around her sons age citing above reasons 1-3, I think.
I've heard parents say that they prefer to get their kids (sons and daughters) married early so that they don't start dating......falling into sin, etc. But it's also possible that some parents do this so as to reduce the possibility of their kids finding someone on their own. It makes sense considering how some parents will reject a guy/girl for the only reason that the person wasn't "their choice."
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^ excellent post. Redvelvet your the best poster on GS you always give your replies in full detail.