hey
am getting married in nov n the stress is at its peak 
i dono whats wrong with me.I was enjoying everything n then suddenly a month back things got changed feel like crying all the time not at all excited about shadi thing,though planning hard n taking care of even the minor detail :@ thinking of the fact that my room wont be mine any more.I would be more like a guest at my own house 
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even by looking at my parents i get emotional 
is this only me or all 2012 brides feeling the same
Re: soon to be brides...do u feel the same?
I am not a 2012 bride, but your feelings are very normal for any girl. If i picture myself in your position, I would definitely feel the same. I think it would infact be not normal, if you didn't feel emotional/or sad and very happy to be out of there :P
So relax and enjoy this time with your parents, I can't imagineee ever living away from my mom so I know how I would feel at that point too, samee :(
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I am getting married in nov too and I can feel what you're feeling at the moment. :( I was very excited and happy about the shadi thing until recently I feel so stressed out and irritated at a minor issue that can be tackled easily. I feel like everything's out of my control now and I won't have the freedom like I do now after I get married ..and I'd be dependent on someone else to take care of all my needs :( It won't be the same like mum dad
The other thing that is stressing me out right now is all the beauty thing .. my nails aren't strong enough .. my hair won't look good on wedding .. I won't be the bride I always wanted to be :(
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I am getting married in about 3 weeks now insh'allah, and I am kind of feeling the room thing - that the room I am living in will no longer be mine and I will be like a guest in my own house. I guess it's cool that me and the hubby will be having our own house now, but also my parents have always said whenever I visit them to make sure I view the house as my own and never as a guest :)
But I'm still not feeling that sad yet.... and three weeks left.... and another weird thing is I keep picking fights with my mum, sometimes I feel it's deliberately and for no reason. But I know I will miss her the most. Dunno why I'm doing that then....
Weird...!
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:(
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ok, so approx 3 months to wedding and although i get goosebumps and have butterflies in my stomach and feel nauseatingly nervous at times, but no breakdown or tears as yet. I am not so sad at leaving my house, but more worried about stepping into another house and adjusting there.
when my sister was getting married, i was all emotional though. i remember i arranged this really nice dholki for her and when i was doing her makeup, i started crying my eyes out and telling her i'll miss her. And i am not someone who cries, so everyone was surprised.
i bawled my eyes out at her rukhsati too. ammi tells me i had three streams of black kajaly tears flowing from my eyes. lol. :p
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I am getting married in a few days. I have just now started feeling the wedding nerves, looking around the house, trying to remember everything, knowing I'd miss it; getting on the verge of crying at the thought of not living with my parents and siblings any more. But I am still doing all the preparations quite enthusiastically. But yeah I have started feeling the sadness and emptiness in these last two weeks more.
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so m not the only one :( i hope everything goes well ameen
all the best to u all
Re: soon to be brides...do u feel the same?
aww dnt worry girls, its a normal feeling. inshallah u will have a blessed life.
i still call mum and dad every day. you guys have made me quite teary.. since my marriage i always cry at other girls' rukhsatis.
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^ inshALLAH :@ hate being so emotional :(
soon to be brides...do u feel the same?
I m being so emotional lately. I can't even cry in front of my parents because it will bring on whole lots of tears from both sides.. How do I stop myself from crying alot, I can't even help it! I can't even watch wedding functions on tv, bcuz rukhsati makes me so emotional!
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ahhhhhhhhhhhh...i m so down at the moment...15 days left in ma wedding InshahAllah...n i am sad sad all the timeeeee :S
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hi ninaaa hope u had a great wedding and are settling into the new chapter of your life. stay blessed. ameen
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It is pretty normal.. you will get used to it! It's just the sadness of leaving family behind.. hope you have settled well!