Re: ...Son vs. Daughter...
^ well first, second, or last... it doesn't really matter. We are talking about the preference of boys over girls.
My point was, when it didn't matter to us and when the only thing we were hoping for was the good health of the baby... why did it bother others... After all parents are the ones who have to put up with one, two, three, or ten daughters.... why should it matter to others?????
and i think, it is more pathetic and depressing to hear, "since you already have two girls, it should better be a boy this time." even in a humorous way.... It just didn't feel nice.... and we were like, don't we have any other choice????? was that going to be it????
During my first pregnancy, i wasn't so outgoing and was just too lazy to even keep my appointments with the docs.... so i can't exactly say anything.