Son-in-laws *rolleyes*

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No me being a soon to-be-daughter-in-law find it very cute that the guy gets his ass kicked!

I finally asked my mom why my fiance is so special to them and this is what she said "Woh bohat acha hai, he is not like son-in-laws from pakistan who think their in-laws are their ghulams"

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well i donno, how much u weigh?

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i dont understand... if ure parents are giving ure husband respect.. which just shows that they have respect for you.. how is it wrong or bad? ... given that they arent thankin him for taken u of their hands.. or any other form of negetivity ...

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akaila channa
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treat an idiot like a VIP and get him to do whatever you want.

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hahahaha mywish u just fried out pir sahab.

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Khawteen they not only respect him, they love him! And I am not complaining I am just wondering why son-in-laws are more special than daughter-in-laws

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Oh by the way, before people start assuming things I am not saying that my in-laws treat me bad infact I am one of the lucky few :blush: I am just talking generally…

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shweet pretty much nailed it. Be good to your SIL or he will talaq talaq talaq your daughter in one breath, pack his balls and leave. And thats not healthy for your izzat.

Sincerely,
Captain Lota

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treat an idiot like a VIP and get him to do whatever you want.

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Wise words... thats what it all boils down to in the end.

A girls parents want nothing more than a son-in-law that doesn't rock the boat in a relationship... i.e. a thullay lugoo damaad.

A son-in-law wants nothing more than a bunch of in-laws who don't interfere too much in the relationship and pretty much let the couple be.

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being treated like a VIP and being an idiot are not mutually inclusive.
sorry you will still not get treated like a VIP :wink: shabaash

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My husband LOVES mashed potatoes and there is always a hot batch of them ready as we walk through my parents' door. He is always the first asked to the table and offered sweets.

But his parents are always very considerate of me, and treat me as their own. When I was sick they made me tea and bought me juices and medicine and stuff.

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its aight pir saab... whoever wrote it didnt have u in mind. treat it as collateral damage.

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Sahar02 Baaji,

Like you correctly mentioned about the 2 way traffic in relationships, and also like Fraudz Bhai Mentioned his MIL Standing up for him, That is the exact scenario in my house too.

My only bone of contention is that my Mother stays with me so my wife has free 24/7 access to a helpline, whereas my MIL lives in India, so she can only reprimind my better half when we talk on the phone.

Poor Me:D

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My mum told me not long ago that, u give ur damad (son-in-law) more respect than u do ur daughter. I don't believe this is bcos of fear. Pakistanis r very welcoming and caring ppl, and as parents they really try hard to make their new son-in-law part of the family. Plus, the better they treat him, more likely the better he will treat their daughter (and we all know how protective Pakistanis r of their girls)...therefore leading to stronger ties/bonds overall.

But i've seen it go both ways. Daughter-in-laws r given a lot of respect too, esp. if she is their first/eldest *bahu. *In the end, i think it just comes down to welcoming the new son or daughter into their family...and if u give love and show affection, most of the times u'll get it in return also. And i think it's really sweet...esp. when a guy gets jealous that his parents love their new daughter-in-law more than him, or vice-versa :) it's all in good fun, i don't see anything wrong with giving in-laws a lot of respect.

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I never said there was anything wrong :smack: I was just pointing it out.

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Its nice to see theres so many families out there who arent like the typical desi families.

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I know, i meant in general.

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Kasdhmiri rain drops i agree with you, we ppl are more caring in general,

some of us hug our guests really hard and make them feel very welcome

when the guests go back home they find their necklaces missing.