u juz gotta let go…and move forward.
that’s what life is all about. :hinna: sowee anyoneveryone
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Sometimes you cant, moving forward is not an option... you can move forward but not let go? Happens.
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MashAllah. That is correct. Mistakes that were made in the past are IN the past. All we can do is learn from them and continue bettering our lives.
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Then its not possible to fully enjoy life. God made this duniya Janat aswell We mankind just ruined it. But there are so many reasons to let go. Not to forget, but to let go
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okay:hinna:
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Sometimes there arent any good reasons... can't forget, can't let go.
Define letting go?
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EASY for some harder for others… aur phir *tang *karney waley buhat hotey hain sath sath.
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Define letting go?
There are always good reasons.
- What will you gain by not letting go? Nothing, only more sorrow and pain.
- What kind of effect will the not letting go depression have on the people you love? your parents? siblings? spouse? children?
- Mistakes in the past, only God can forgive. Not you and not I.
And letting go for me is blaming myself for mistakes I made in the past. And NOT LEARNING FROM IT for the future.
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woh to hote hain. But always when you are down or upset, think of the millions of people who are in worse situation then you. People who lost their whole famlies in wars, drug addicts etc. These are just extreme samples but I hope you understand
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JL everything happens with the will of Allah(swt). life is just a test, if you hold on to stuff from the past obviously you're gonna hurt urself and it's gonna be harder for ur present and future.
Dutchie jazak'Allah, you are 200% correct. i agree, we learn from our mistakes and we shouldn't repeat the ones from before. that is why we make mistakes in the first place.
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=) aye...i think this in mind and with the help of Allah(swt) i am where i am. life is too short to be worried and depressed about the little things. there's much more to it than the tiny heart aches and pains...Alhamdolilah we're in much much better position and place than the people who are dying or losing their relatives in lebanon, iraq, etc. or even poverty wise and many other situations that others are in
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Whats the point of this thread anyway? It isn't helping you.
And why am I being lectured here?
Move, move forward, dont worry about others.
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because you seem to need some of this advice by the looks of it child and any other who needs it...
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Moved on? Good. Good for you! Don't lecture others, dont worry about others. Im outta here!
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Ofcourse.... after all we do have choices to make but we run out of options :)
Go with the flow.... [easier said than done - ask me]
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Go with the flow.... [easier said than done - ask me]
i agree, it is easier said than done. but that's only if you try your bestest, and if your intentions are pure then Allah(swt) will help you and we all know anything's possible with the will of Allah(swt)
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I agree every single bit except that there is no such word as bestest 
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i swear i had no clue i did that…man my corniness is getting to me
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no… our leenaa is coming back 
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loll aap tou ese keh rahe ho jese kahin chali gaiee thee