Or have our minds been bombarded with filmi drama & influences ?
And it is because of this we start to live in “lala” land …waiting for what we believe is destined to happen as far as love is concerned …
Good to hear your opinions as I know what mine is!
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There is no such thing as “The Right Person”. There are just a whole load of “suitable people” 
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^I agree with the above...and once you find these suitable people...how the two of you work at things afterwards will define whether they are the right one or not...no-one is ultimately perfect for you...every relationship needs work...its just it can work with the right people...
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Masoomlarki - he's out there, took me until i was in my thirties to find it, but well worth it
In my first marriage, he was very suitable and I loved him. After he passed away, I thought that was it, but then I met my second husband and he is truly my soul mate in all ways. Yeah, it's sappy and if you knew me you would know that in most things I am practical beyond redemption, but in this I know, he is everything I wanted. It does happen.
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MM, Love, special someone, soulmate is hogwash. Its all about doing the chores and compromise. More chores and more compromises is the name of the game. You do have one advantage...you get to choose what he will compromise on...in otherwords you dont compromise nada zilch a big Fat Zero.
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I strongly believe in that couples r made in heaven by Allah..so thas y i believe that some1 somewhere is made for me..
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i always had this in mind...... i want it that way..... which ...... i don't know myself yet.
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I totally believe that my hubs was made for me and I was made for him...Allah swt has blessed us with so much. Inshallah He'll continue to bless us. Ameen.
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Yours views were interesting ...some of you share my sisters views ...and others share mine ...which is basically that we run away with our imagination ...and get caught up with something so far from reality ...that someone ...somwhere is made for you? Allah mia has our route planned out for us buttt... the key word that was used was to "compromise"...compromising enables you to achieve compatibility ...They say it is easy to get on with someone who is just like you ...but then I think it is also possible for you to get on with someone who is much more different from yourself in nature.
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If you believe in destiny, or fate, then you have to believe that there is someone out there for you.
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no i dont believe it, its not true, u suck
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Blushes…tries to hide his face with his hands
A Hippopotamus in Timbuktu has been made for me.
Giggles…runs away
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Woa!! At last something I totally agree with PCG!!
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no..no..and ..no, i’ll run away anyway:blush:
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For the lucky ones, it's a fairy tale. for the unlucky ones... sab bakwaas hai, sab bakwaas hai
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I believe there's someone out there...who wont irritate me as much...who will trust me and respect me enough...who will be there for me even when I'm a lousy wreck...I believe...and i believe he will be able to count on me to do the same for him..and who knows if we work together hard enough we just might pull through and have a happy life together...in love and joy.
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I believe someone is made for someone else but not everyone gets their ideal because of their own actions.
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i believe there someone out there for me, who wont bother me on game night, and will cook and clean and will be like a slave,
and will let me have a girl friend
