Re: Sometime’s i really want a divorce.
Aaw 
:(. Nahi don’t divorce, it’s not worth it over a few fights. 
InshaAllah things will get better. Everyone has family problems. It’ll be okay 
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nilu if my husband was like that i would just live with it… even if he beats me i won’t say anything… one day he will relize that he is wrong and he will love you more than his life!!!
:sharming:
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Ur lost ur mind 
Phatto yeah i agree everyone has up & downs in marriage but not like
that he use dirty lang. on me
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Aaw yea I agree that’s wrong. Whenever someone cusses at me becuase they’re mad, I usually just keep quiet. Maybe they don’t really mean it and it just slips out.
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hmm nillu baji cool down yaar but i have to say no offense ur husband is a big jerk. the person who does not have a respect for his own wife, he is ******* .
pray for ur self and he say one more kick his ass don't cook and don't clean anything let him wash his own cloths and let him eat from outside . teen char din mey uqal thikaney ajey gi .
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he sure looks like .. 
nilu jo karna hai souch samhaj kar karna .. argh just read your other replies .. he is an *******
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Nilu Divorce is not the solution and it’s highly discouraged in Islam. Islam tells us to do everything to work things out, if things still don’t work out, then consider seperation etc. I don’t know about your husband but some people just curse without even realizing it. You said he uses bad words for your family, there must be some reason behind it. Talk to him and ask him why he dislikes your family. Ask him what your family has done to him that makes him disrespect them. And if he has some valid reason, then take an action accordingly and try to solve the issues. Think of the divorce as the last resort, not as the first option.
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Anuty … aik advice hai … app bhi do char MC .. BC .. and blah blah suna diya karo 
haan ab jasa khana banay gi app ko bhi otu khana paray ga na … is mein itnay gussay wali ki baat hai
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Shikra: No t here is no reason behind this joh unke zubaan pey aajatey hai wohi
baq dete hai. And i know divorce is not a solution but i try everything.
I try to talk to my phuphi but she was like haan sarey mardon aise kartey hai actually
my sis in law said that and my Phuphi agreed with her.
Phir mei kiss se baat karoon? Sometimes i wonder why im in this Biatch world.
Sinner: Yeah if he goes to far phir mei bhi agey se 100 jawaab deti hoon.
To Phatto & everyone else read what i said to Shikra.
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Well, unfortunately, this world is not a perfect place. If it were, everyone would be happy. To be honest, if you really want any answers, you should talk to him. Ask him to either tell his problem with your family or not to be disrespectful to them. Try not to discuss it with women because all they will say is the same thing your sister, phoopo, and girls in this thread said. No offence, but you will not get any advice from girls, or even guys, and all you would get is this -----> "he's a jerk", "all men are like that" etc.
So, my advice would be that you clearly talk to him and tell him to either state his problem he has with your family or stop being disrespectful to them :)
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goood keep it up .. wasay apni knowledge say humain bhi mustafeed karein …
ab mein puri thread parhoon .. yeh ho nahi sagta
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Auntie yeh lain. Bailan pakarkai rukhain saat mein. :) Phir dhekhna agar vo gaaliyaan walai uncle kuch kehngai :)
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cant you talk to him? tell him u HATE when he does that? i know someone in our family had that habbit too n then his wife confronted him about it like a million times n now he doesnt do it, i think he had some sort of temper problems n stuff. Seriously talk to him! N yea dont cook for him tomarrow, teach em how to treat you by treating him like crap urself, but thats after you have tried talking to him and working things out
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This is not a sane suggestion…a guy in his right mind would not curse his wife or her family…specially Don’t talk to him when “he is out of his mind”…talking to him would only aggravate the situation…and even with a reason…a gentleman would never curse his wife…
Guys like him should be deported out of Holland…he is mentally torturing you for the last 2-3 years now…koi hudd hoti hae…bilkul dimaagh kharaab hai…Pehlaay he used to be after you because of kids…now this…There must be some human rights comission in Holland that can act on these kind of abusive people…mental torture is worst then physical torture…atleast with physical torture you can show your wounds to others…
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Show me exactly where in the quoted post you see talk to him when he is cursing your family written.
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I don’t know sometimes why you are so much self centered & so much self indulged…we are talking about Nilu here,who is having some meticulous problems in her marriage & you are taking yourself in between..enough said.
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Excuse me? I am self centered? I am taking myself in between? What the hell are you talking about? Wake up and look who quoted me and assumed what wasn’t written and who dragged me in between. I told her what she should do and what is best in my opinion and here you butt in and assume on your own what I didn’t even say. You read too much. Just read what’s written, don’t read what you do not see written. Have a good day.
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Focus on the thread and discuss Nilu's problem, not me - Shikra
So Nilu once more all my symapthies are with you & i pray and hope that your marriage & life turns out into a decent one...i pray that he stops mentally torturing you and you can live a happy life with him...Ameen
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oh ho :(