Got to know this today and thought to share with you guys … though its a bit long but really wanted to share
there was a Maliks family living in my uncle’s neighborhood so i know those people as well … they moved to some other place 2 yrs ago … the aunty is very nice to us and she is always so humorous that every1 enjoys her company but we can also say that she is a strict lady… but mostly she is making ppl smile .. she herself laughs out really loud
she was very conscious about the bahu … she used to say with great proud that i have seen almost like 30 lerkian for my son … he was good looking and was settled abroad … anyways finally she got to find the perfect bahu after the khawaari of 2 3 yrs
last year when we went to their place she was preparing for her elder sons wedding … she was very excited and showed us all the barri with great excitement and it was no doubt very nice … they got married in march i saw the pics the couple was happy and beautiful
in January i got to know that the girl got khula from them a few months ago and i was so shocked … my uncle told me that the family is very depressed and dejected due to this… i also felt afsos bcz i remember the excitement of aunty
later i got to hear that they are now again getting him married
now it was last weekend when they got him married again with the same excitement and zeal
2 3 days after the marriage the couple was going on motorway to some dinner and they faced an accident … the girl died on spot but the boy reached hospital but couldnt survive … it wasnt even a week they got married that they died
every1 was like shocked and in grief even i was when my uncle told me this much
then he added that when he was at the funeral he said that is gher ko tou ksi ki nazar lag gai hy pehly hi yeh log dukhi thy bahu ki khula ki waja se and ab yeh ho gya but the relatives replied that you must have listened to one sided story ye actually us lerki ki bad duaein lagi hain in logo ko … in logo ne us bachari ka jeena haraam kia hua tha … the guy wasnt serious in calling her abroad and the whole in laws were very cruel to her … her parents even begged them for rehem on their daughter they treated her like slaves
and finally they took this khulaa decision very difficultly … ksi lerki k parents itna bara faisla boht mujboor ho k letey hain
this makes me think how ppl are so double faced … how can one be so cruel that they can ruin one’s life khauf e khud has vanished from ppls hearts dnt know what creatures are these “mother in laws” are pehly itni muhabbat se bahu ko beti bna k lati hain phir usi k liye zindagi mushkil bna deti hain …
y ppl have forgotten that Allah can show ur bad deeds infront of u may be it want only her bahu but the other 30 girls whom she rejected of no reason as most of the women are doing now a days
i really dnt get this kind of psyche
may Allah rest their soul in peace and guide the existing to the right path