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I agree with PCG - it's said that 'a change is as good as a rest'...and if ur feeling tired of life and demotivated then perhaps u need to reassess ur life and make some changes in it

If u have established a routine, then try to break the monotony of it by doing different things - or even the same things in a different way

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I have had few of these "dips" in my life so far... i used to look for people to recognize my motivation, and i always felt sad when no one around me (my family or friends) would recognize it or appriciate it.

I know its wrong to expect them to appriciate it

so how did i turn it around? well i started by simply making myself happy. Keep myself motivated and be happy about my own achievements and not to look for compliments/recognization. I have done alot of small things that i feel proud of and i can assure you every single one of us have done something in life that is worthy of proudness. Be proud of yourself, take pride in what you do. Do it for yourself not for anyone else and you will never loose the motivation.

That said, i am not saying that you will not have down-time in your life. There is always a hard day ahead of you. Tackle it with smile and make dua to Allah(SWT) to make it easier.

I hope something from the above will be helpful to you. That is just my experience so far in life. InshaAllah it will be even better in future

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^^ wise words.

I heard this from someone and it found that saying so inspiring that i started to live by it..: do not look for the 'light' from others, light should come from within, if its from someone else it will eventually fade away one day. instead be the light and be the one who spreads the light.

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some good advice here :k:

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Sounds like restlessness to me, not lack of motivation :flower1:

Maybe if you worked on becoming a nicer person, it would come naturally :flower1: maybe :flower1:

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^ I concur.

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Yaar mein eik gaal dassda haan tenu- based on what you described I suggest you get yourself medically examined cuz you might have STD(Sexually Transmitted Disease)… Do you also have khujlee(itching) somewhere in ur body apart from losing interest in work?

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Mulz i guess you know too much what an STD feels like right ;)

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one should always you use protection when with someone non-muslim and thats why I am okay.. alhamdullilah! what about you? Don't tell me you never had sex.. can PM me if you want to be discreet :)

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No, i'm not a dirty skank like you

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Lol Mulz you should use protection with Muslims too you know...

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LOL..how do ya know I am a dirty skank? Why should I believe u r not? come'on.. enuf come out of the shadow and tell us more about yourself..things that aren't known.. LOL... u r a comedian!

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NBN, Unlike Sara paanch sau solah, I trust muslims.. Despite me and sara pss(panch sau solah) hailing from the same city (Lahore), she doesn't trust me no more.. how can ya justify dat? When she doesnt have trust in fellow Lahoris/Punjabis/Pakistanis, how can you expect a gora/gori to trust ya?

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well i do become restless but thats not the cause rather its the sympton..nomesayn..cuz when i feel im not motivated i just have this “restlessness” & guilty feeling…

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Ever thought about a bridge?!!
no just kidding, i am guessing u can handle the above joke!!

but seriously and earnestly…maybe it has to do with all of what we are watching? maybe its an age thing…but it hink more likely its that now more then anything we are so much more aware of allt he negative int his world!!

i think this world needs a splash of …positive energy (for lack of something better)

b/c i was having this discussion with my friends, and mind you all very goal oriented ppl - and we were just htinking…whats it all for.. u know.. like whats the point..the whole world wants to blow itself up..our environment is going down the tube… ppl think jesus is about descend down… i mean its nuts!!! i wonder if that has anything to do with it!!

so this is what i did - i boycott all news on TV - only read stuff on the internet when i really feel like it! generally try reading about the positve things that ppl are doing and the success stories not the failures … maybe u need to block all the negative energy around you and only let in whats positive, if thats possible.

anyway loads of luck! also sometimes its totally okay to not be motivated!

OR..,maybe u need pills! no j/k :smiley:
you are totally cool and i feel the same way..these days!..sometimes!:halo:

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travel and reflect ...different setting should do u good

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u are over the hill now. get married