Re: some more advice please :+(
why would he say that?
why cant his ‘wife’ enjoy an outing with the whole family?
i mean if you wanted quality time with the husband only, then I would understand you..but you want to go with the kids too so why not take your mother in law as well?
stop dividing your family.
alternatively, ask your husband for a seperate house. A one off fight will be much better than this daily torture. You might have a better relationship with your inlaws once you move out.