Don’t get me wrong. I mean it in the best way possible.
They like women to do and say the things necessary to manipulate their man into doing what they want him to do.
And these women happily oblige. They will flatter him, tease him and make him do cartwheels…all the while knowing full well that they are doing it with an agenda in mind. To accomplish something.
Do they not see how demeaning it is to their own intelligence? What pleasure or maybe better put as “challenge” is there in manipulating a man and getting him to “perform”. What self-respecting woman will enter into or remain in a relationship where this is all it takes?
Besides…don’t they get bored? Doesn’t it become so damn predictable? How can anyone remain interested?
Quite ridiculous as far as I am concerned.
A man knows what he needs to do.
A man does it.
He steps up to the plate…doesn’t need to be tricked into being there.
Don't get me wrong. I mean it in the best way possible.
They like women to do and say the things necessary to manipulate their man into doing what they want him to do.
And these women happily oblige. They will flatter him, tease him and make him do cartwheels...all the while knowing full well that they are doing it with an agenda in mind. To accomplish something.
Do they not see how demeaning it is to their own intelligence? What pleasure or maybe better put as "challenge" is there in manipulating a man and getting him to "perform". What self-respecting woman will enter into or remain in a relationship where this is all it takes?
Besides....don't they get bored? Doesn't it become so damn predictable? How can anyone remain interested?
Quite ridiculous as far as I am concerned.
A man knows what he needs to do.
A man does it.
He steps up to the plate......doesn't need to be tricked into being there.
Usually these guys find women who are clear about what htey want and express their feelings to be desparate and annoying with no self respect.. So yeah i doubt manipulative chalaak grlz insult their intelligence coz it seems they dont have any if they're thraetened/intimidated by smart women :)
Ira, Impuluse, she's saying that men like to be manipulated. They want women to be clever and "act" a certain way, even though they know fully well they're being played with.
Most guys are too simple to really manipulate someone into manipulating them. The complications and all are generally women's domain. I have never met such a guy in my life. I have known many guys who were considered hard to get by the ladies. What the ladies did not realize was that the dude was either clueless and did not know, completely unskilled in how to engage, or extremely shy deep inside some cool dude personality.
One of my good pals, a Hrithik lookalike investment banker that some may have seen hang with me at ISNA last year has to be the most shy person when it comes to women. He can talk and babak about this and that but can never connect, never show or say he is interested. So while he may be considered manipulative, tease or whatever by those who are interested in him, the fact is that he is simply clueless when it comes to women.
Its amazing, but many women are manipulated and played by their husbands, and they willingly allow themselves to be played, and their husbands willingly play them and see their wives being played as if they don't have any self-respect.
Why make this a gender issue? People play others, and get played all the time, and not just by their spouses.
