Re: some advice please-feeling lost :(
No use crying over spilt milk. When you told him you were gettin rishtas - details or not- why didn't he jump up to make a plan to own you or take sum steps abt it (like talk to his parents... or w/e)???? Wasn't he worried that he might just lose you... or that he was even risking everything he felt for you by exposing you to this potential rishta business??
Why didn't HE force you to tell your parents abt him...??? From what I see, he couldn't have cared less for that.
Also, if you'd told your parents.. they would've expected him, since obv he's the guy, to make the next move or take initiative or w/e. Seems to be like your ex isn't the kind to be wearing those shoes...