Re: some advice please-feeling lost :(
Well I think that you need (both of you) to draw a line b/w a platonic friendship and a bf-gf relationship. Stroking hair, or being naggy over why you didn't update each other on your life at every second is going beyond the platonic "friendly" relationship.
Would you let any other of your 'guy' friends whom you're not dating do all that to you??? Why don't you just talk to him straight up. But I wont blame you either.. cuz you want him despite how he treats you so you apparently don't really care if he walks all over you or does anythin at all to you that is hurtful or not... b/c at the end of the day all you care for is being his gf again.
That's just not me... hard to advise you on this one. I hate to say this but then you both would just be like every other gora friend-ly couple here... that is friends with benefits. You get all mushy when you need some lovin, and the rest of the time you go back to normal life.