Re: some advice please-feeling lost :(
Alvena,
I look in on this thread from time to time to see how you're doing, but haven't posted in it.
You need to stop thinking about this...remove yourself from the situation as much as you can, bury yourself in your studies, spend more time with your true friends and stay away from this guy and his loser friends who are clearly trying to take advantage of you.
You're in medical school honey. That means you're fracking brilliant b/c dummies don't get admissions into such a program. But if you keep worrying about what he's doing, what he's not doing, what his friends are doing, etc., it's going to creep into your being (like it's doing now) and your grades in school will suffer, as will other aspects of your life.
Don't let that happen. Don't let these losers ruin what you've worked so hard to achieve.
Stay away from him. Stay away from his friends. Everything you've said about them is sending up a red flag. You sound like too nice of a girl to ignore ANYONE, so I'm not suggesting you never speak to them again. But beyond the occasional "valaikum salaam" you must say out of civility, don't seek them out. Don't engage in a conversation. And if any of those b******* have the nerve to "invite you to their rooms," you tell them to stay away before you file a harassment complaint against them.
Sorry if I sound half-demented. I just hate it when people mess around with other people like this, especially when those "other" people are as nice as you are.
Good luck.