Re: some advice please-feeling lost :(
Im not going to defend him.
But i am not going to cut him out of my life in a bitter way.
I will concentrate on myself but i will still be be polite and cordial and in a group situation i will enjoy his company, with time hopefully.
The main thing is he was someone i could talk to for hours and hours and hours and have a very good time with, he has alot of short comings, and didnt treat me right, maybe with time he will mature and be different, but i am not going to sit around and wait for him.
People might thing how can she love him! he sounds this and that, and if i was looking at a friend and she saying this to me i would think omg she is so stupid, but if someone has been in your life for 3 years and you shared some special times and there was attraction and care its hard to let go as much as you want to.