Socially awkward :/

[Hulahoop_Queen]

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@Xtron

hmm..well then he might be interested in ya eh!. Well how about ask him indirectly about his life and where his life is heading which all of you women are very good at it. That way you would get an idea. For instance, if he says he is looking for chick to get married then take that as tick mark yo!.

lol, I can’t do that to someone when meeting him first time..y’ know. I am a huge not-invading-into-someone’s-personal-space kind of a person.. I would love to know that but I cannot get it out of a person until they themselves tell me

[diwana]

Re: Socially awkward

@Hulahoop_Queen

mid-20s. I just meant boring ‘buddhi’ as in you knowwww..someone who acts like a buddhi more than anything.

Just relax.

There is no guarantee if you had done something differently, he would have fallen on your feet. Besides he has not shown disinterest in you I suppose. Even if he does, so what? Move on, plenty of men still living in this world.

[Sehrysh]

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I suggest you contact him, just with a casual hey/hello, but when you do so, do it with the perspective of reconnecting as “friends.”

There are two benefits to this - it gives you an opening to salvage a connection with him AND it takes the pressure off of you. Never go into a date thinking it’s a date, it just puts pressure on you. Whereas if you go in with no expectations and no real desire to “impress” the person, it’s easier to be yourself.

[STA]

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@Hulahoop_Queen

bohat ronaaaa aa reha hai..haye amma ji..

STA also believes on spiritual powers and duwas. you can start praying tahajjud and ask Allah of your better future and spouse.

[Hulahoop_Queen]

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^yah well thats true, there is no guarantee he wouldve liked me even if I was myself…alrightyy then…“breeatheee in, breathheee out”..I think I am a little relaxed now that I have ranted away.

[Hulahoop_Queen]

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@Sehrysh

I suggest you contact him, just with a casual hey/hello, but when you do so, do it with the perspective of reconnecting as “friends.”

There are two benefits to this - it gives you an opening to salvage a connection with him AND it takes the pressure off of you. Never go into a date thinking it’s a date, it just puts pressure on you. Whereas if you go in with no expectations and no real desire to “impress” the person, it’s easier to be yourself.

that was the main problem..I like him and it is hard to not think of that when he is around…it’s like one of those really silly teeny bopper crushes.

But seriously, thank you. I will try and reconnect as friends.

[Xtron]

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@Sehrysh

I suggest you contact him, just with a casual hey/hello, but when you do so, do it with the perspective of reconnecting as “friends.”

There are two benefits to this - it gives you an opening to salvage a connection with him AND it takes the pressure off of you. Never go into a date thinking it’s a date, it just puts pressure on you. Whereas if you go in with no expectations and no real desire to “impress” the person, it’s easier to be yourself.

Xtron thinks this honey sugar has given good idea here. More you get to know him you won’t be confuse around him.

[Hulahoop_Queen]

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^LOL..yaaah there is the word..CONFUSED. I was like a walking zombie, you shouldve seen my face. Seriously, if my best friend was around, she wouldve slapped me.

[NaMaan]

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We men don’t ask someone for a cup of tea ‘Just like that’ . . . If you know what I mean . You still have a chance

[Xtron]

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^You will be surprised buddy…you will be. I ask couple of my female friends for coffee and stuff..but do i like them for romance and stuff..heck no!

[NaMaan]

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^ and trust me , even one of them wink at you , you’ll go all ga ga

[Xtron]

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Not from any angle buddy..haha. Xtron plays his game very well and damn good at it. If he fancied some chick for romance he would be the first one to let her know. I am not shy guy ya know..

Aight aight..for those reading..Xtron sure is heartbreaker but no player for sure..

[Reha]

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I agree with Sehrysh…HQ…you should try and reconnect just as friends.

No pressure…just friendship. Whatever happens…happens.

[Ghost14]

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Figure out something he’s interested in (sports, video games, whatever) and throw in a random one liner about the topic. None of us were there, but if he contacted you then he definitely thinks you were worth talking to and you probably didn’t blow it.

Don’t worry, you’re just a socially awkward penguin.](http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/socially-awkward-penguin)

[lil_ash]

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Wierd timing, I just found my high school crush on FB today. Lol honestly girly, its ok tell express that you like him but atleast be yourself and try not to be nervous ( I know its hard ). You wouldnt believe what I did with my crush, I stalked the heck out of him, I would just stare at him until he realized i’m like staring at him, and then when school ended, I added him on myspace(yes its back from the days), and messeged him asking if he is gay/bisexual. I have absolutely no idea why I did that, WHY? WHY? why? I was nervous on myspace god damn it! oh and he looks sexier than ever now. Im so reluctant on clicking that Add as Friend button. Must control myself of humiliation.

[R.A.W]

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A Crush usually crushes the soul. Better to brush aside the trash and think/pray/plan for a pure relationship called marriage.

Those who, in their youth, used to blush with the concept of ‘a crush’, now don’t want it for their own daughters (knowing the consequences). But, just like they didn’t use to listen to their parents then, now their daughters don’t listen to them.

[Ghost14]

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@lil_ash

Wierd timing, I just found my high school crush on FB today. Lol honestly girly, its ok tell express that you like him but atleast be yourself and try not to be nervous ( I know its hard ). You wouldnt believe what I did with my crush, I stalked the heck out of him, I would just stare at him until he realized i’m like staring at him, and then when school ended, I added him on myspace(yes its back from the days), and messeged him asking if he is gay/bisexual. I have absolutely no idea why I did that, WHY? WHY? why? I was nervous on myspace god damn it! oh and he looks sexier than ever now. Im so reluctant on clicking that Add as Friend button. Must control myself of humiliation.

I once had a girl call my house (no idea how she got the number) and my mom answered the phone…it was awkward.

Snitches be crazy.

@R.A.W

A Crush usually crushes the soul. Better to brush aside the trash and think/pray/plan for a pure relationship called marriage.

Those who, in their youth, used to blush with the concept of ‘a crush’, now don’t want it for their own daughters (knowing the consequences). But, just like they didn’t use to listen to their parents then, now their daughters don’t listen to them.

What? Having a crush, which usually passes, is different from acting on a crush. I’m sure even good Muslims like yourself develop feelings for others, be they infatuation or legitimate. Yes, a crush can turn into something legitimate.

I agree with you that the difference is how you deal with those feelings but I have no illusions about whether or not my daughters or sons will have crushes.

[Pepsi_ki_Botal]

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Did he contact you afterwards

[Mad_Hatter]

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@lil_ash

Wierd timing, I just found my high school crush on FB today. Lol honestly girly, its ok tell express that you like him but atleast be yourself and try not to be nervous ( I know its hard ). You wouldnt believe what I did with my crush, I stalked the heck out of him, I would just stare at him until he realized i’m like staring at him, and then when school ended, I added him on myspace(yes its back from the days), and messeged him asking if he is gay/bisexual. I have absolutely no idea why I did that, WHY? WHY? why? I was nervous on myspace god damn it! oh and he looks sexier than ever now. Im so reluctant on clicking that Add as Friend button. Must control myself of humiliation.

Ahahahahahha better to be safe than sorry - did he reply?!

[NomiCA]

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hey… if that doesn’t work out…you can always go out for a coffee with xtron…and be yourself …