doubts, mistrust, and suspicions are unfortunate things which take a person down, although s/he has her/his first hand experiences that doubts, mistrust and suspicions are wrong ideas, to assess someone’s true nature. especially someone to whome one comes for respiteand benefits from but only for a short while, perhaps for having a very narrow minded selfish nature or perhaps for being unsure, and kept as in enslavement of the mind.
it is worse when ‘friends’ create that situation. the person becomes sorrily over whelmed by ‘friends’ ceated picture of what may be or will be wrong if a woman/man pursued a course of action which entailed being confident in her/ his own self.
such a person loses, one after another, and is never happy.
presuming that s/he was true when you indicated something, and he had a wish to obtain what he set out to obtain.
could it be that the friends were il informed as well? that everyone was ignorant?
when it happens, then where does it leads to, both the misled and the ones who mislead and encourage to remain doubtful and base a decision on that?
share your thoughts if you like.
best,
Dushwari