How to deal with a man who neglects you but gives you attention only when in need of sex?
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She should explain her situation to an authentic scholar by phone (not in presence of her husband), give her husbands number (or give the phone to her husband later), and request the scholar to enlighten her rights to him in the light of Quran and hadith.
Scholars get such complaints daily, they know how to convincingly convey the same point with wisdom & respect/ make them realize their mistake without degrading/ embarrassing them.
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ignore him
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exactly ^^^
You can't be intimate on your own......well ermmm.........you know.
It takes two to tango.......so don't give it to him! Taste of his own medicine and all.
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TAUBA TAUBA
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TAUBA TAUBA
Why don't you keep your butt out of this thread? It's a serious thread.
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I said very seriously Tauba Tauba
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Hareem i dont know you personally so cant give proper advice.But as this is a public forum so here goes.
I hope you are just makingup all these threads and are not feeling like this.
It seems to me like a very dear person has betrayed your trust and you are scared now.As husband is the one who you trust the most so you are trying to makeup excuses so you can blame him b4 he betrays you.
I can only judge him by the way he responds in threads, specially yours.You have openly complained about the behavior of you inlaws and he lets you vent here.Means he is a better than about 89 percent of male population who think there family cant do no harm n the people complaining against them are the worst of all.
As regards to the complain in this thread, well he still finds you attractive enough to have it with you.
I really like you hareem and pray that this tough time passes quickly.Ameen
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Ask him directly, he may have better answers then forum members.
Some time perception make things look different.
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You should tell that man that you already have a husband … Wait a sec … are you talking about me? 
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^ 
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Hareem i dont know you personally so cant give proper advice.But as this is a public forum so here goes.
I hope you are just makingup all these threads and are not feeling like this.
It seems to me like a very dear person has betrayed your trust and you are scared now.As husband is the one who you trust the most so you are trying to makeup excuses so you can blame him b4 he betrays you.
I can only judge him by the way he responds in threads, specially yours.You have openly complained about the behavior of you inlaws and he lets you vent here.Means he is a better than about 89 percent of male population who think there family cant do no harm n the people complaining against them are the worst of all.
As regards to the complain in this thread, well he still finds you attractive enough to have it with you.
I really like you hareem and pray that this tough time passes quickly.Ameen
thank you for your prayers but what do you mean "he let's me vent here"? I joined this forum way before he did and I don't complain about my inlaws anymore because of this same old comment by various male members. I do have a right to discuss my concerns here like other members...Im not going to create a multi of my usernick to b!tch about. At least I don't create drama in my house.
Oh and my inlaws know my nick on this forum.
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Please dont take me the wrong way.I know your sister in law is also here and you are not going behind their backs.Its just that at time like these one needs to look at the nice things husband does for them,their nice habits and all those time when they have done more than you have expected.Because anormal person has both good and bad habits.Its whether the bad ones outweigh the good ones or the other way round.I only gave that example to show that he could have easily said some nasty things to you in those threads but he takes it lightly which i know many men dont.
And a wife only knows how her husband is with her.
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Wait. Who are you? 
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This may sound harsh, but deny him Untill he learns to woo you with proPer affection... He needs to learn that there are other forms of affection apart from sex that a female craves needs and deserves...
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I am a silent visitor.Was introduced to this forum by my husband.I have a lot of free time on my hands.Visit gs regularly.Know most of you virtually.:p
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deny me? … you have no idea what you are saying …
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hareem’s sil is on gs, and some uzgar with 20 odd posts knows all about it. and i had no idea. the plot thickens..
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I don’t think my sister is on GS
She may have browsed it once or twice as a guest though … btw both of my sisters are unmarried and still in full time edumacashun …
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i vunder how much more before the posts turn into dots today.
<3 uzgar <3 what is your hubby's nick on gs?