But now by the time its getting insane, she can't stick to a decision we made either its about small things or big. She will definitely start doing what she wanna do no matter how much we talk and i explain why she should not do it.
women usually don't like being told what to do. Maybe it's hard to give up her old life
I would tread lightly.... if you want her to change behavior and she agrees and doesn't comply - you got an issue on your hand.
same goes for you....