But life is good.
You have a steady job, no one else on the horizon really. You've had a couple of flirtations, nothing serious. No one worth making the giant leap for. You aren't even sure love exists so whats the point anyway. All you know is that you have two kids, a wife - and a job. Sure, it suffocates you and you feel like you are dying everyday. You were gonna do things, you were gonna blaze a loev affair but eventually you settled for mrs-right-for-now and she no longer fits and this life is no longer your own..
What do you do. Do you stay with the wife and kids. Dying inside, not in love with your adequate wife and reasonable kids.
What is the alternative? Casual affairs to keep the young dog alive? but stability for the kids...
I think as Desis we get stuck at honeymoon. What happens once the romance has worn off?
its called the pseudo gora syndrome, perpetually bored with life and seeking fun n frolic in all the wrong places.