I've started to get worried by all the posts by girls younger than me because right now half my friends my age are unmarried and it's still not considered a big deal right now.
My aunt has experience with rishta aunties for her kids and they're quite complimentary before they get paid but after they get paid they're horrible and get nasty about looks, height everything. They try to make the family feel like it's the girl's fault whereas it's just the rishta aunty who doesn't have a wide enough search area. Allah knows what's best for you and the right time when you'll get the guy.
same in my case, rista aunties have no rishta. and ulta mj may flaws dhondati hain.
astaghfirullah, at least don't believe what rishta aunties say, you are just 25years old and worried, girls now at the age of 32 don't bother, nothing is in your hand girl, so stop worrying, your match will come soon inshaAllah, but don't feel about your complexion even dark girls get married very soon, your taqdeer is not related to your complexion , height weight education,its written by Allah subhan taalla, have faith on him,the rishta you have mentioned must be unacceptable,** because it shows rest ALLAH knows he couldn't afford that much, he couldnt be responsible for his wife so he wants his wife to work, later on these things become issue which is offcourse not good.** and be who you are, because who knows the guy you getting marry like your simplicity, your sanwala rang. never change for people demands.
and my prayers for you may ALLAH pak grant you spouse with good character soon ameen
Yeah, the guys who like their wives working do so because they can't support her themselves.
mjsa bri galti hue jo ya thread post kar diya. if i ever hurt any one I AM SORRY. and THANX A LOT TO ALL WHO EVER REPLIED TO MY THREADS OR POSTS.
look. job karna koe bura nae samjhti may. lekin ap ya b to dakho ka larka khud job less h aur larki well estabilished chahiye.ya kya bt hue. suppose.. larka job less h ,aur larki ghar b sambhale aur kamai b karay...wao na. ya situation tb achi lagti h..jb shadi ka bd jb hubby ko koe problem ho to wife support kray. lekin ya kya tuk bnti h ka purposal sa he demand job wali ki ha aur khud job less ha.
hope so i put my faith in ALLAH. ka koe responsible hubby milay....will do job bt depending on situation. hope its clear. BYE BYE,
mjsa bri galti hue jo ya thread post kar diya. if i ever hurt any one I AM SORRY. and THANX A LOT TO ALL WHO EVER REPLIED TO MY THREADS OR POSTS.
look. job karna koe bura nae samjhti may. lekin ap ya b to dakho ka larka khud job less h aur larki well estabilished chahiye.ya kya bt hue. suppose.. larka job less h ,aur larki ghar b sambhale aur kamai b karay...wao na. ya situation tb achi lagti h..jb shadi ka bd jb hubby ko koe problem ho to wife support kray. lekin ya kya tuk bnti h ka purposal sa he demand job wali ki ha aur khud job less ha.
hope so i put my faith in ALLAH. ka koe responsible hubby milay....will do job bt depending on situation. hope its clear. BYE BYE,
That's what you should have said the first time. Yes, you are right. It is wrong to have such expectations in your situation. Also, a hubby doesn't need to be having financial issues in order for his wife to work.
There is nothing wrong in wanting to be a house wife and not work but I'd suggest that if you have finished your education, just try working for yourself, to groom yourself. May be for few months or a year. You learn a lot when you work.
Secondly, I know many guys (including myself) who are attracted towards sanwala complexion more than the fair complexion. So this should not be an issue in long term. You will ultimately run into someone who is looking for you and just you dont worry.
Baqi Ammi tu worry hoti hi hain, chahey larki ki ammi hoon ya larkey ki :)
I thought Sanam Saeed just got married ( the actress)! Jokes aside. Even the original Sanam Saeed is Sanwali. And yes, there is nothing wrong in you wanting to stay at home and not work and expecting a traditional role where men work and women stay at home.
IA you will get a very good rishta. In the meantime, focus on yourself and look as stylish and pretty as you can, not for the rishta aunties, but for yourself.
25 is not the age at which you should be worried.Have your faith in ALLAH and keep praying to HIM for the kind of husband you want. Impossible and difficult are the terms used by humans only, nothing is impossible or difficult for ALLAH.
Also, having a sanwala or dark complexion, is not a hurdle, what counts is how well groomed you are and how well you carry yourself, so focus on that.
you not wanting to marry a guy who puts a demand for working wife, is absolutely fine.
