So Who's an Alpha Female Here?

[Muzna]

Anyone wanna lay claim or are we just too scared to admit it?

Some men like their women submissive, sweet, feminine, and nurturing – and hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. But that woman is certainly not an Alpha Female.

Now, for my Alpha Females out there, you badass girls know who you are, it takes a very particular man to be able to handle you. Yes, you might as well admit it now: you are a handful.

Potential Alpha Female Lovers: don’t say ya weren’t warned. You best know your woman before you fall head over heels for Miss Independent:

1. SHE WILL CHALLENGE YOU
   Not only will she challenge you, but she probably won’t forfeit too easily; she will be persistent and insistent. She will debate with you over anything from de Blasio’s new policy, to the actual color of a tennis ball (green? or yellow?), and she expects to win. Some advice: challenge her back.

2. SHE DON’T NEED A MAN TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
   If you’re the kind of guy who loves to feel needed all the time, this gal just isn’t for you. She is fiercely independent and prides herself on being self-reliant and self-sufficient: Miss Outta My Way. The great thing about being with an Alpha is that you won’t feel tied down because she doesn’t need you, she wants you.

3. SHE WILL BE STRAIGHT-UP WITH YOU
   If your Alpha has a problem, you will most likely know about it. You can’t expect her to be too gentle with her words, so hopefully you’ll understand that she isn’t trying to be mean – this is just the way she is. But, hey, you won’t need to deal with the typical passive-aggressive bull**** that most girls pull!

4. SHE’S A DO-ER, NOT A TALK-ER
   Alpha’s take action, so if she says she’s gonna do something – you bet your ass, she’s gonna do it. She probably expects the same in return: if you say you’re gonna do something, you sure as hell better follow through. And if ya don’t, she will…so don’t miss the boat, Mister. Hop on!

5. SHE DOESN’T WEAR HER ALPHA ON HER SLEEVE
   Chocolates? Flowers? One of those Hallmark cards that have a cute pun about how much you love her? Yeah, these things will probably make her vom a little in her mouth before it makes her heart melt. Not that she’s a total cynic, but she’s used to the doting – the lovey dovey crap that every girl wants – and in order to get her attention, you’ll need to come up with something a little more original.

6. SHE’S NOT EASY
   If you think loving an Alpha Female is easy, you’re wrong. She’s difficult, competitive, and probably complicated. She gets off from being free, being in power, and will step on any man who gets in her way. She is, in fact, ab. So. Lute. Ly. Impossible.

7. BUT SHE’S DEFINITELY WORTH IT
   Her my-way-or-the-highway attitude and complete self-competence will, at times, make you feel small. Instead, let it empower you. Let it strengthen your weaknesses, and let it feed your drive to success. She will help you learn about yourself; she will push you; she will change you; she will impact you. Overall, she will make you a better man.

7 Important Things You Should Know Before Dating An Alpha Female

[Pakistani_Prince]

Re: So Who’s an Alpha Female Here?

I am the male version of Alpha females

[Illuminate]

Re: So Who’s an Alpha Female Here?

hmmm… I would consider myself a mix of the above description.

1. SHE WILL CHALLENGE YOU
Challenges are fun! But being over aggressive isn’t. Relationships aren’t a game where you need to be winning. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Sometimes you lose but you still win

2. SHE DON’T NEED A MAN TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
Fierce. Independent. Self-sufficient. But I think it’s also important to show your partner they’re needed and valued. Even if I can do it all myself I would still like my spouse to know I need them and be open to being vulnerable. There needs to be balance between your independence and your ability to share the burden/struggles together.

3. SHE WILL BE STRAIGHT-UP WITH YOU
There’s being real vs. being rude. I am 100& for being truthful but there is a time and place for it. Really depends on how much you know the other person. How strong your emotional intelligence is. I am definitely more gentle in this area so I guess I don’t fit the alpha female in this scenario.

4. SHE’S A DO-ER, NOT A TALK-ER
Yes, I’m definitely a do-er!!

5. SHE DOESN’T WEAR HER ALPHA ON HER SLEEVE
Umm, I like the chocolates and flowers, etc. Let’s admit it, some guys aren’t that innovative. It’s the thought that counts and if he can come up with something more exciting..well..that’s just amazing! I like the small, sudden surprises/gifts that are individualized. Lets me know that he understands me.

6. SHE’S NOT EASY
Great things are never ‘easy’. Always important to know your worth. Different from playing hard to get and acting entitled though. I think I am more alpha in this scenario because I really have to know someone, trust and respect them to give them time and space in my life.

7. BUT SHE’S DEFINITELY WORTH IT
YES! But no one should make anyone feel small. I didn’t like that part. Both partners will need to empower the other at some point in their relationship. Hoping to make the other person a better, truer and more fulfilled version of themselves. It won’t be easy but definitely worth it!!

[stylobabe]

Re: So Who’s an Alpha Female Here?

why would be an Alpha female scared to admit it ..she ain’t scared of no one I am glad to say I am one of those …though married now but my husband knows how strong I am and I keep telling my 6 year old son that women are not weak through different ways…