so what your mum taught you was wrong?

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: so what your mum taught you was wrong?

@nadz123

when we enter our inlaws house, why is it alot of hum aise nahi kartey/kaatey etc. i cant even cut onions the way i want to cos they dont eat it like that, most things are their wayand even when i have a shower around afternoon time she will saywhy dnt u shower in the morning,why now?`, CANT EVEN have a friggin shower when i want. she will ask so do you know how to make pulao, sabzi etc…il make it…but of course it wont be to HER standards, never a compliment, just complaints, oooo ismein marchey hain, even though she cooks just about average herself.

its stuff like this that makes my head whirl, hard to fake it. and her daughter who got married is always here, literally. and they sit there and talk for ages. just them two. however if my mum rings me my own mother wont talk for ages cos she thinks my MIL might think we are talking about them, so my own mum will go or ask me who else is around, is anyone listening to you etc.

anyway, first inlaws say that our parents should teach us, then when they do, apparently its all wrong…

You’ve probably mentioned it already, but why don’t you and the husband get a place of your own?