Re: so what your mum taught you was wrong?
lol that’s right. Situation is worse at my side. My mother appreciates whatever i cook but we have a relative who lives in our home in a quarter on rent, she is a working woman. she is quite co-operative and contributes in the daily home specifically the kitchen tasks. But She has some dominating sort of personality.I am handling the kitchen , so, whenever i cook she doesn’t eat it, she eats something else, I heard she has this perception that I cant cook lol thts why she doesn’t eat whatever I make. My family likes my cooking but it is only she who is not ready to change her views 
I actually enjoy it because I know my cooking is not that bad. yesterday i made biryani and she was like itni PHEEKI? I was like “pehlay taste to kar lain” lol she didn’t even taste it, she made raita with Full of NAMAK and eat the rice with it. Gosh some people are WEIRD and funny. I dont mind so…NADZ i also suggest you to bear with it, stop thinking over such issues, you have your children so focus on them.
Some people cannot change their opinions even if they want to so move on.