SO what makes a good husband/wife?

In a world thats obsessesd with self help books, how to better this and that, why are there not books on how to be a better wife/husband.

so lets make our own.

rather than saying `someone whose loyal/caring etc

be more specefic, actual real stuff please, not just adjectives, and some reali life stuff even.

Re: SO what makes a good husband/wife?

A good husband wants to see his wife soft outside and tough inside.

On the other hand he wants her to accept him as tough outside and soft inside.

Re: SO what makes a good husband/wife?

both should forget thair individuality and ego and always work as a team. if one spouse is not willing or lacking her 50% then the other spouse must compensate to make the shaadii work for the benefit of children. believe me its workable. the key is the desire, dedication, sincerity, honesty and a determination to succeed is the way to compensate whats lacking in one of the partners.

Re: SO what makes a good husband/wife?

they should both respect each other as they are and not try to change the person..........everyone has some sort of fault in them but that doesn't mean they are not a good person learning to accept the other person's faults (as long as it's not something major) is a key to having a successful marriage...........another thing is learning to comprimise on certain things and not always expecting to get your way