So what if you got married to....

…someone who is bisexual? Yes. I am going there again. Anyway so what if you ended up marrying a man or woman who had no qualms sharing the bed with the same gender. Would you continue with the marriage or not?

More importantly how many of you would take advantage of this situation? :wink:


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Go ahead. i’m going to sleep now, will take care of this in teh afternoon :5:

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This is an extremely relevant issue. One only has to look at the rather sexually deprived community we live in mixed with a stifling sexual environment to realise we have bisexual individuals in Pakistani communities. The fact that bisexuality is far more acceptable in society - western or others (in the case of men in Pakistan and Afghanistan), makes the situation rather poignant.

Additionally there is an increase of people "experimenting" in most societies linked with an underground hidden culture in Pakistan one would expect these issues to arise sooner or later.

On a political note the documentary by Dawn News on Male prostitutes in Pakistan was rather horrifying and the alarming rate of their usage and the HIV/AIDS issue was damning.

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ohh...variety is the life of everything...not to mention diversity...

only to ridicule those related to these issues but not to offer any solution.

we all know how awesome journalism in pakistan is. most of the stories get their **meatiness **in editors office before they go out to printing.

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I am thus assuming you would take advantage of what has been bestowed upon you saieen?

so far nothing....i'm penniless...mindless...sleepless...foodless...so what is next? more misery and despair?

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WOW!!!! Um.......hmmmmmm. Gosh. Imagine walking in the mall with your spouse and thinking that not only might he think that the other ladies are attractive, but that might think some of the guys are pretty hot too :/ Most women have a hard enough time just dealing with the first possibility, LOL!

I'm hoping that if one is married to a partner that is bisexual....that their bisexual partner will honor the commitment of a marriage just as a heterosexual spouse should.

From a personal point of view, I don't agree with it as it is not approved in Islam. I prefer a guy who is straight. And since I would want my children to be raised to find only the opposite sex attractive....then I would want to someone who shares the same values as opposed to someone who will encourage bisexuality.

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:konfused:…i read somewhere that it is haram…I dont know…have any of you guys come across such people?

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I would not marry someone who is bisexual, for a variety of reasons. None of which I care to elaborate, most of which many of you would identify with.

With that said, if I found out, after marriage, that my partner was bisexual, I would feel cheated, hurt, humiliated and embarrassed. Just like anyone would if they found out their life partner was withholding a deep dark secret.

I would not take advantage of the situation because I believe in monogamy. I would expect my partner to uphold that commitment regardless of sexual preference.

I will say though that I do support gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, purple people eater, etc rights.

This part of your post is crying out loud that you are a troll and you have posted this thread just for chuska and for your own mental stimulation

:ban: recommended.

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^ Agreed.

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Mirch bhai good action against nasty thread. Salute.

You're needlessly getting excited here. What if your bisexual partner isn't into threesome/foursome?

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Toh…ab kya hoga?:hmmm:

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What I would do. Tell that its haram. We will get dauzakh for that. I'll keep samjhaing. If no asar I'll leave if he will do that.

u jst want to have a gossip....

ever since i joined this forum.... i came across so many of such threads...

WHY?

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^ is this for me or someone else....confused.

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annymou5: is all well with your family situation? Hope so :)

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i watched yesterday the documentary at the "same sex" ratio and trend in pakistan. my senses just don't work at this topic. i mean what is so enticing in the same sex that it makes one habitual of it. by the way then why the opposite gender are made up for? if the same could b derived from the same one. i detest such obnoxious relations. already the world has so much evil in it, this issue really made me dumb.
i can't even think of such a case with me, if it occured then better to leave it, as this is a lust and lust can only b avoided if the victim has a strong self defense ability.
i was astonished to find out that the evil things have even snatched the innocence of the children and had made them enter into such an abyss.............i don't know where this so-called liberalism and modernism will take us to?