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I do not know any 28+ gals who are single... but I am sure there are plenty now a days....
Yes, 28+ girls are usually wise enough to stay away from obnoxious people.
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What's the future likely to be for these girls?
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Their future is very bright as they get married to vonderful guys like me.
Do not quote the wrong age for the Muhammed (SAW) .He was "25" at that time!!!
1- When it comes to making a point, religion and sunnah is used as crutches.
Other sunnah is also to marry more than one women.
Will these women ever bring that 'sunnah' as example?
Also, we are talking about women here, and Khadija RA was a widow so she had been married before 40. She was not single or never been married. So that argument does not hold water at all.
Even more important, the prophet SAW did not tell or advised others to marry older women. It was his choice, he did it.
2- Not that older women are outcast, the only point I tried to raise is that if it is by their choice, older women lose the chance of otherwise good and long married life and be able to procreate with gaps multiple times.
For a good child raising point of view, if possible, it is better to have good gap between children and career women by choice cannot afford to have multiple kids (even two) back to back within couple of years.
3- Less time to procreate, they tend to rush for children. God forbid they want a boy or a girl, and they have only one kind of two children, then they have less time to try getting pregnant for a child with different gender.
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it’s because of dumb ass thoughts exampled in this very thread that girls, single and 21+ end up getting depressed, tihnk they are leading a very pathetic life, and as someone put it, bitter. and then you guys wonder why women act the way they do 
i hope none of your daughters ever have to hear what you guys are saying. 
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^I am depressed too after reading the responses :( but that's the truth right?
As someone sarcastically mentioned earlier "as if 28+ is a disease".
Diwana also made a good point on kids age gap / career women, etc.
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why does that have to be the truth? why can’t we change our stupid mentality and not call 28+ a disease? do we really need kids and increase the ever increasing population? what’s wrong with a career woman? why cant’ women have a choice in their own lives? why is it that the guy’s choice is the only choice?
gaah! 
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Life is grand in your late 20s when you’re single - you’ve just found yourself, you know who you are, you’re confident, have a career, have the time to fully enjoy your hobbies, you do things without worrying about a husband or children and your parents can no longer tell you what to do!
This is the best time of my life, but I am ready to meet ‘the one’ now. 
Best of all, you’ve been through the rishta intros, met a few dudes and have figured out what it is that is important in a marriage partner!
I know of some family friend's whose daughters got married at 28 or older. I wouldn't say it's impossible for them to find someone, but the chances decreases. They're usually more picky also about what they want. For a man looking (especially without knowing the girl first), if they can get younger girls, they tend to go for them rather than the older ones.
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Cat-woman, I agree with you....I married when I was 26,5 yrs....I was ready to get married coz I finished my study, got a promotion at work, enjoyed a lot with family and friends, bought a house, bought a car....had the time to know myself..who am I...what do I want etc etc....Getting married was a big change in my life...and I was completely ready for it....
There were some people who found me really "old" to get married....According to them I was almost out of the market...hahahah....but I never bothered about them coz 26 isn't old at all!!! And the most important point is that I achieved what I wanted to achieve...
I'm so glad I didn't married at a younger age like 21/22...My ex InLaws wanted me to marry at that age..I broke the ristha coz he was a big NIKAMMA!! I waited for the right guy!! can't say that I found him...But I can say that I'm happy whenever I look back...
Some people think I should start to have childeren now....WHY?? Coz I'm getting old now?? If childeren are in my fate then I'll have them...if there not...then I can't do anything about it...
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cat woman- by the time we "realize" what's important in a marriage partner - the "partner" has taken off with someone younger.... "partners" do not care for a "mature" female partner because they WANT TO look superior/smart/and out do you- to be a "man" :(
As Hassan mentioned - some of his friends who married same age also "wish" for someone younger cause they feel mothered.
I say it's best to get married young, have kids at young age, and THEN go out and "find" yourself. Then go for the career option. I know it takes time... but see what you have in return, a family to call your own.
By the time most girls get married and have kids their AGE is at an age where their kids would have been a TEENAGER if they had them around mid 20s... if married around 36...
Kumar - I know what you mean. I don't think GOD has given women that choice. God has set a time line. You know it from the bottom of your heart too - that if you are 28+ and single - REGARDLESS girl/guy you feel lonely inside and WANT to be with someone. So why FIGHT NATURE over CAREER?
So why FIGHT NATURE over CAREER?
Great line!
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"*so what happens to 28+ girls *"
They live happily ever after.
I seriously have problem with bold statement. Hope you did not really mean it my friend.
Children are blessing and population should be the least worrisome factor if one believes on religion and/or natural instincts.
As for PCG bashing NJ, that was totally uncalled for. I hope that gets edited.
No scenario is perfect and we are only discussing some pros or cons of older age marriage by choice, so direct personal attacks should not be made. No one should get so worked up or emotional.
