Re: so what happens to 28+ girls
they become lonely, and they look at everyone as if its their enemy. aunties and other women make their lives further miserable. And this is not restricted to desi culture only. my gori friends who are in their late twenties also facing the same dilemma. no bf, or a confused bf who dont know exactly whether he wanted my friend or not, or their bfz are so short sighted that they never even put themselves on chair where they can image their lives that how it will be miserable if that one person, i mean my friend is not in their lives.
if the girls are educated or rich, they also start getting insecure, as may be less educated person might treat them trashly, or a poor husband might take away all their money. insaan jab yeh soochta hai k wo bhut bara aalim bun gayea hai to wo waheen per ghalti kerta hai. kion k aalimo k aalim to ALLAH he hai. Hazrat Khadija RA, also married to an "Umi" (PBUH) only because he was Saadiq n Ameen.
so insecurities insecurities insecurities insecurities...load of em exist.
and it they are poor, then they will be waiting for a raj-kumhar who will marry them one day and will take em on a world tour.
kher the end is they get lonely and lonely. Majority gets cranky, but many also get closer to Eternity (SWT).
ps. insaan k ander ki khwahish he us ko aik lamhay main wo bana daiti hai jo wo kabhi ban-na nahi chata hai. so ask yourself, what makes us to lose the most precious things of our lives that we always were protecting?