So True:

[neha]

@aaliyahkhan1

It depends on the person…so dnt wrry about it… depends how you are and what you would do to forgive and forget…BTW…FORGIVENESS is a KEY ingredient…otherwise you will take a long time to move on…and hating does not help…trust me…I know what I am talking about

but blv me i have nothing to hate..i have not been ditched or something like that..itz an intentional break up…so???

[T1000]

@aaliyahkhan1

yeaaaa…after a lot of bloody rona dhona…:pcg:

don’t leave me .. Please

what will i’d do after you ..

I m nothing without you ..

Please ..

don’t leave me ..

AAH! .. why we become so dependent on someone .. :s .. !!

[aaliyahkhan1]

but blv me i have nothing to hate..i have not been ditched or something like that..itz an intentional break up...so???

well...it still depends on you...and ur reasons for the break up!

I normally was always with my friends if they are around....if not I would sit in my room and cry cry cry...crying helps...you know..the longer you keep the tears in the harder it is to control them later.

Shopping helps...a new maker helps for a while....makes you feel good abt urself....basically keeping ur mind off the other person helps.

[aaliyahkhan1]

@T1000

don’t leave me .. Please

what will i’d do after you ..

I m nothing without you ..

Please ..

don’t leave me ..

AAH! .. why we become so dependent on someone .. :s .. !!

OH PUHLEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSE!!!

No way…I have NEVER done that…I do have my EGO!! Why should beg or force any1 to be with me…they wanna leave…please go ahead…the door is open and no one is gonna stop them…

A guy who is worth ur tears will never make you cry (at least not on purpose )

[T1000]

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okay ladies .. it seems like something serious .. I was jsut being funny .. as always been .. dragging the thing towards funny side ..

One of my favorite quote is .. Don't cry that its over, be happy that it happened.

It feels as if things are gona end when someone special say Bye to you .. you feel like nothing .. .. find yourself standing at the end of the world .. where the only thing that you want to do is to kill yourself .. but the fact is .. thats not what it worth for .. ..

For every bad situation .. the best solution is to look at the optimistic side which we people never look .. being emotional and being feeling full we just over look those things .. things like

1: was he worth enough ???
2: you are gona cry for someone who does not feel the same for you .. ? you are crying for someone who does not have feelings for you .. ? you are crying for someone who thinks that you are just another one???
3: If something is not killing you then definitely its making you strong and if the break up does not kill you then it menas it has taught you lessons for future .. ..

Keep one thing in mind .. there is nothing ultimate in this world .. everything has to finish one day .. its law of life .. .. even your ultimate love will die some day .. :) ..

I know its harsh .. but its .. FACT!

[aaliyahkhan1]

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T1000

Well said!!!

Crying is normal…you need to cry to get it out of the system…coz you are hurting…you are not crying for HIM!

It is true…after a while you realise that it was not worth it…that he was not worth all that trouble…and you learn to thank Allah for it and move on.

It is also true that we always meet people in our lives for a reason…to learn something new…and real life is made out of experiences..all the bad things that happen in life makes up ur experiences and the good things make up ur memories

[T1000]

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yp .. Past is just for learning .. you will be a foolish if you keep your past dragging with your present .. ..

It happened .. thats it . … don’t let it happen again! .. ..

you wana smile .. look at the +ve side ..

and one more thing .. no one in the world is true friend of urs except yourself ..

P.S:
don’t fall in love the very next morning .. .. the new stupid that you will find will be just someone who wana take adantage of u .. an old trick of boys .. .. .. got my point!

[T1000]

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back to the funny business ..

break up gives a lot of business to TISSUE INDUSTRY! ..

[aaliyahkhan1]

@T1000

P.S:
don’t fall in love the very next morning .. .. the new stupid that you will find will be just someone who wana take adantage of u .. an old trick of boys .. .. .. got my point!

yea yea…we know that…you boys and ur funny antics…

You know it is soooooo annoying for a girl when u hit on her right after a break-up…I don’t know what makes u think it would be fun..coz all I want to do is poke ur eyes out :pcg:

[T1000]

@aaliyahkhan1

yea yea…we know that…you boys and ur funny antics…

You know it is soooooo annoying for a girl when u hit on her right after a break-up…I don’t know what makes u think it would be fun..coz all I want to do is poke ur eyes out :pcg:

well the technique does matter .. .. if someone gona hit .. definitely you will poke his eyes out .. .. but if someone try to be helpful .. you would love to cry on his shoulders .. .. .. u know!

[aaliyahkhan1]

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^hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…I have a friend like that…but he is a sweety…he never tried any funny business with me… and we are still in touch…and don’t say anything mean about him

[T1000]

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^ .. .. lol .. he mistakenly ended in friend zone .. :D .. .. you know .. wat i mean ;)

but just imagine .. .. BE HONEST .. and imagine .. if he tried to be helpful .. and being tricky he remained out of that Friend Zone .. was there a possible chance of you going out with him?

*** BE HONEST ***

[aaliyahkhan1]

@T1000

^ .. .. lol .. he mistakenly ended in friend zone .. .. .. you know .. wat i mean

but just imagine .. .. BE HONEST .. and imagine .. if he tried to be helpful .. and being tricky he remained out of that Friend Zone .. was there a possible chance of you going out with him?

*** BE HONEST ***

NO CHANCE HONEY!!!

Noooooo…he was never like that…and he was in love with another girl

But noooooo…I don’t do the rebound system like that…it is very silly to do that…just to go out with some1 else coz ur hurt!!! I’ll flirt…but that too takes some time for me…but nothing more than that

[T1000]

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so the main problem was .. he was in love with another girl .. emm .. ..

I can stil put money on that .. that it could have happened .. .. :) .. anyway .. forget about it .. no point of scratching old stuff .. I am happy that he is happy with his that girl friend .. rather .. :D .. u! .. :D (jokes)

[aaliyahkhan1]

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^SHUT UP!!!

nooooo wayyyyyyyyyyyyy…he is not my type…he is tooooooooo sweet and nice… I called him “Maamu”

[T1000]

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lol .. lol .. I am glad that you brought this topic .. he is too nice for you ..

Source: http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/blog/joseyvogels/6490/why-women-like-bad-boys

Why Women Like Bad Boys
"Do I have to be a jerk to get women to go out with me?"The self-proclaimed “nice guy” asking me this question has spent one too many days in I-like-you-as-a-friend purgatory. I figure he deserves an answer.

Because you know what he’s talking about right ladies? C’mon, admit it. You hear yourself say it to your girlfriends:
“He’s a reeeally nice guy, funny, considerate, a real sweetheart. I don’t know what it is, but I’m just not attracted to him.”
Am I right? Why go for funny, sweet, considerate when we can go for indifferent, self-centred, and manipulative? So much sexier.
So, why do women love bad boys? For some women it’s about the challenge and the excitement. Nice guys are too predictable. They want to love them, but the good girl in them wants to rebel. And since society doesn’t like bad girls, they let bad boys bring out the rebel in us.
“I want to be comfortable but not bored,” a bad-boy addict girlfriend tries to explain. “I’m not sure that exists so I go for the thrill instead.”
One could also argue that going after guys who are clearly lousy long-term relationship material is like the female version of “commitmentphobia.” It’s less scary to long than to genuinely love.
Some women latch on to the naïve belief that she’ll be the one to turn him around. It’s that whole “love of a good woman” thing.
Of course, one could also argue that being attracted to people who make us work a little harder for it is simply human nature. Just as many guys are drawn to indifferent, rebellious “bad girls” who keep him guessing, we all like a bit of a challenge when it comes to relationships. Okay, so some of us like a slightly more extreme challenge than others.
It’s not that you have to turn into a lout to get a date. But the problem with some nice guys, is that, well, they’re a little too nice.Women do like to be treated nicely but they also appreciate a guy who’s willing to stand up for himself. It’s very hard to respect a guy and believe he likes himself enough for us to like him if he’s willing to take whatever a woman dishes him.
So you can be nice without being a doormat. And you can be self-confident without coming across as an arrogant, well, jerk.
And hey, if you ride a motorcycle, it might not hurt.

lol!

[aaliyahkhan1]

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^:omg: true huh!!!

"So you can be nice without being a doormat. And you can be self-confident without coming across as an arrogant, well, jerk.And hey, if you ride a motorcycle, it might not hurt. "

These above lines are true…I want my guy to be the MAN…I don’t want him to say yes to everything I ask of him…but he can’t treat me like a door mat either..coz that is just not nice. And I kind of have the above one right now in my life…including the bike…hahahaha:cb:

[T1000]

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lolz .. i know eh .. .. ..

listen, you are nice .. you are good .. you are really really great friend of mine .. but i don't feel the vibe for you .. .. lol .. pooor HE!

[neha]

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aaliyahkhan1 and T1000 thanx for making me feel better :)

[aaliyahkhan1]

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@ T1000 -hahahahaaa…have you heard those lines tooo

@Neha…dnt wrry…everything will be fine after a while