So the girl you like...

[paki_rana]

Re: So the girl you like…

@yeswekhan

There’s this girl at work I’ve liked for nearly a year. We talk at work and go out for lunch with other colleagues at times. And it’s become pretty apparent lately that she likes me too, even others at work can tell. Honestly speaking she’s everything you’d look for in a wife, really sweet, funny, attractive and above all modest and not too outgoing (don’t bite my head off for this, it’s just that I prefer people who keep to themselves more, like I do).

So here I am thinking that hey maybe this is the one I should really go for, and out of the blue I find out that she is Shia. It was kind of shocking because it never came up before and even during Muharram, there was nothing really out of the ordinary. Which leads me to believe that she isn’t a kattar shia but a moderate one.

I’d like to know if anyone here has ever married someone from a different sect, and how it worked out. I hate saying different sect because until recently, I never even thought of myself as “Sunni” until this revelation made the difference obvious. I’m really confused and trying to figure out whether I should try and make this work (lots of hurdles, have no idea what my parents would say, let alone hers) or whether I should just let it go, which would be a shame because I really, really like this girl.

deep down in your heart u already know what you need to do ..you wont feel the same again