As far as I know, they haven’t officially asked. But his mom called my mom and they’ve talked and it’s obvious that it’s a yes from their side and that–unless something crazy happens when they come – it’s a done deal.
Okay that’s what I said about a ring. I think their intention was to bring a ring not as an engagement / baat pakki type of deal but just as a present to show their interest (also because it’s my bday that same day) but my bf and I both decided that it might come across wrong due to the significance of exchanging rings so he told his mom that wasn’t a good idea.
So I guess what’ll happen, based on what you/some others have said is that they’ll come over and express their interest and then my family will get back to them and then figure out specifics? That makes sense.