Re: SO & parents coming over to meet the family
I think your time & energy will be better spent speaking to your mom about this. Your mother and your siblings (if they’re older) need to talk to your dad & try to figure out what’s going through HIS mind. Have your mother talk to your dad to see what his thoughts are on doing a fast engagement/wedding b/c of your school/work schedule. As for what’s “normal”…well, you need to figure out what’s “normal” for YOUR family…more specifically, for your dad’s side of the family. So if your dad has any brothers/sisters who got married AFTER him…or if you have cousins on your dad’s side who have gotten married recently, look to see how their rishta/baat paaki happened.