SO & parents coming over to meet the family

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Re: SO & parents coming over to meet the family

@S_and_S

What part about having the Nikah early bothers you? Because of my husband and I living in different countries, it was easier to have a Nikah for the immigration process to go more smoothly. Everything was fine, it felt like an engagement if anything and it was about 9 months till my wedding the following summer. About the same time frame your looking at. I guess a long engagement in my mind is over a year or more.

We actually go to school together and live near each other so doing an early nikkah without a rukhsati just seems odd since we might as well do both together. There wouldn’t be a seperation of any sort and since we’d have free reign islamically in terms of hanging out/being around each other, I just feel like the actual wedding/ruksati will be pointless. It might just be a psychological thing on my part because as I’m typing it, I know I sound insane. :S

@NaMaan

Well like most of love birds , you two also think parents are dumb . No they are NOT . They must have already figured out what to do and what not to do . Plus now ball is in parent’s court anyways . Just sit tight and pray .

No I don’t think that at all. i was just wonderin how other people did it. I’m sure our parents know but I’m the type of person that likes to know the answer to stuff because it makes me anxious not to.