so nervous....

Re: so nervous…

Relax and think of all the pro’s. Your spouse, his family etc. Don’t stress over small things! Congrats! :hugz:

Re: so nervous…

You are one of those who have been dreamin about getting married since your childhood. :snooty:

Re: so nervous....

First of all, RELAX go get a nice massage or manicure.

Marriage is a huge change in any ones life, so its common to feel nervous and scared.
I understand moving away from family also is a huge deal. but it all works out.
You and your husband both will be going through that new phase together, so trust me it wont be scary then. As far as doing chores, you don't have a MIL on your head making sure your food and the house is perfect. So thank God for that, I am sure your husband understands that its all new to you and will help you out!
This is the best time in the whole getting married process, so Enjoy because before you know it, it will be over soon. Enjoy being a bride, and have faith in Allah for the future!

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Its natural to feel nervous.... i burst into tears after spending a day with my fiance and his family lol. I missed my family so much that on the way home i burst into tears which led to my fiance stopping the car and cuddling me , i felt so stupid telling him why i was crying he was just like ahhh but you have me and you know my family love you! ..

And then you have my MIL who is insistent i will be laughing on my rukhsati ... she keeps saying my daughter in law won't be crying she'll be laughing and i'll make sure of it! ( she is beyond the most adorable woman after my mum that is in the world!)

I do sometimes when i am alone or laying in bed i do often think about leaving home :( my in-laws are MasAllah as loving as my parents but its just the whole leaving your child hood home :(

ok now i feel to cry :(

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^ you living with inlaws before marriage? Most women can’t tolerate it even after marriage…and you stay with them beforehand?? :hmmm:

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wow...thanks for all your support! Im glad to hear from everyone....it makes me feel better!

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOO LOL! what usually happens is my fiance tends to come to my house on the week ends and chills out with my brothers… once in a while i have to go to his and do the same :stuck_out_tongue:

its a better way to get to know your in-laws… ive known them for 3 years now!

Re: so nervous…

:no:..itz just that am a confident girl :snooty: