I just wanted to share in intersting thing that happen last night. An x-friend of my had her nikah last night. Now im sure you are wondering what is so weird about that? well heres the thing, she didnt invite any of her friends! the girl she is best friends with didnt even know about it. she just happened to go to the masjid last night and find out that the nikah was about the take place!!!
Now at first I was like surprised that i was the only one that didnt know…since its hard to found out about people getting married in this town. It was just so intersting, that she didnt invite anyone, not even her best friend.
At this point im still confused why she didnt invite any one of her friends… any ideas?
not really i find it quite sad. i mean those people who should have been there to take part in the happiness werent even invited… its that insulting to the friendships she had???
cant u be involved in her happiness now? as a guest theres not much to do at weddings anyway, apart from dress up like a tart, aka christmas tree decoration, and pretend to look happy for the fact that its not u on the stage getting hitched.
weddings are so overrated. her wedding sounds perfect.
just dont invite her to urs.
na guys, i dont care to be invited, like i said we are x-friends. i just wish her all the happiness.
it was just a nikah in the masjid, no stages, or walimas... i just think that if its something small & intimate, she would invite her close friends/relatives. & if she couldnt afford it, than she should have at least told them... she didnt even bother informing them that she was having her nikah.
I dont see what it has to do with being a man or not
and there s NO thing like JUST A WEDDING
WEDDINGS are new beginnings for everyone involved.
And if you dont share them with those you care about, then your not worthy of their friendship
it means your not man enough to stand by what u said, whether that be an insult or not. Life isnt about sugar coating, so don’t make it so, if u have somehting to say, say it.
True one should stick to what one says. But life is more then sticking to what you say especially when its an insult etc.
Perhaps you like to throw arround insults, but I dont
yeh ok, so her friend did not invite her to the wedding, her friend, will inshallah be married for the rest of her life, being happy for someones marriage does not mean you cant be happy for them for rest of their married life. Are you meant to forget the couple after the wedding day? no, its like when someone gives birth, your cant be there in the delivery suite, but your still going to be happy for them arent you?
