Relatives don’t necessarily mean inlaws. I don’t mind living nearby as long as they don’t try to interfere with my life after marriage. Forexample, I don’t want MIL telling me when to have kids, or how to name them, or how to raise them or whether I should work or not. THere are so many issues arising after marriage and I think the best way to deal with them is between husband and wife, not with everyone else involved.