Re: So much for bashing....
they don't have to nor are they expected to. white folks generally like having their privacy once the kiddos are grown up while desi parents like to parent their kids even after marriage.
I wouldn't like to live with the in laws, because i like my privacy, and like to do things on my own accord. i would however, not mind visiting them every so often, or living nearby. Just so ammi jaan doesn't feel like i've kidnapped her son :)