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Zamana kharaab hai. Just keep her at home at all times, tied to the kitchen stove.
.. and don't forget to black out the windows...you don't want her peeking...
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@yeswekhan , I think you have a very dated image of what a relation between a wife and husband is like. Keep in mind that she is not your pet, slave^^ or fourteen year old daughter. She is your wife, your equal, your partner/humsafar. Yes she needs to respect you and keep you izzat in mind, but so do you. And I don't think she would feel that YOU respect her if she has to ask for permission before she goes out even if it is for "symbolic" purposes.
I think this chica have put it rightly so.
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proper respect? oh come on...it's your husband, not father.
Well the fact of the matter is that once you get married, you stop being your father's responsibility and start being your husband's. Hence the respect.
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Well the fact of the matter is that once you get married, you stop being your father's responsibility and start being your husband's. Hence the respect.
Well in that case you have to be good enough (in every field) to earn your wife's respect. :-)
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Well in that case you have to be good enough (in every field) to earn your wife's respect. :-)
does father have to be good enough too.........to earn respect??
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good point but a father has been with you even before you were born, he doesnt need to prove you anything - in typical cases
does father have to be good enough too.........to earn respect??
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does father have to be good enough too.........to earn respect??
Yes.
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I'd cherish my wife's izzat.
well played..well played.
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I think problem with the way OP worded his question is what most women dislike. No, a wife should not need her husbands permission for everything BUT that's not to say she should not inform him. Both husband and wife should inform the other of their plans but at times the partner may have a valid reason to disagree with the plans.
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It’s probably best we lock them up in the Kitchen. Or even better to the sink. 
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ok ok. STA can help you khan].
Islamically, it is obligatory to ask permission before step out from home. In sever condition like fire, wife doesnt need any permission.
Practically, it is your understanding with your wife that you both know your limits.
Now, this question can only be better answered by your future wife and your relation with her.
go and get with her, and treat her as prophet Muhammad(pbuh) used to do with hazrat Ayesha(ra). They used to ran, ate, bath, etc together, which ultimately created a love bond between them.
Ok, i will let you know the name of the book which help you to spend good life with your future spouse.
:@:
Well it's not a literal thing, more a guide to behaviour. Just something I read in an Islamic book today. basically it just suggested that in order for a women to expect the same thing and more back from her husband, she's gotta lead by example sometimes.
MH: I agree with you. I also read same thing.
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^yar islam kyu laatay beech main?? iss tarah k topics main islam nahi laatay
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There is nothing wrong with asking ijaazat. Sometimes, this little gesture can make a husband feel important, which is a good thing in some relationships.
there are some men who take advantage of this. they want to feel superior and want to dominate the relationship with is not right.
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Do you ladies honestly believe in being babysat by your husband? Is that what husbands are? Babysitters?
Um, daddy-G can I go out to the mall? Purty puhlease? batting eyelashes
Urgh. Vomit. Vomit. Vomit.
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I usually just like to keep people informed of my whereabouts so I dont see it as a problem to do the same with my husband especially if it's going to make him happy. However, if it is like FORCED upon me, then forget it.
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please do not ask me to quote this one but i did read some where that a women in Islam is meant to ask her husband for permission before she leaves the house, as she is his responsibility.
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I think problem with the way OP worded his question is what most women dislike. No, a wife should not need her husbands permission for everything BUT that's not to say she should not inform him. Both husband and wife should inform the other of their plans but at times the partner may have a valid reason to disagree with the plans.
Word.
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I'm going out to dinner with a group of girlfriends tonight. I didn't ask my husband's permission...I merely sent him text message to let him know what I had planned.
Whoops.
I'm going straight to hell.
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I'm going out to dinner with a group of girlfriends tonight. I didn't ask my husband's permission...I merely sent him text message to let him know what I had planned.
Whoops.
I'm going straight to hell.
You are indeed. :)