Re: So married ladies
I believe tradition is only holding women back from awaragardi. Let them be free!
Re: So married ladies
being awaragard is different from being free
Re: So married ladies
How dare you called someone is trolling?
Why not contribute something useful? 
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No it's not wrong as long as you don't make her wear burqa/niqab.
Obviously not, burqas are crazy. Abayas are better and work just as well. But we digress, I'd like to hear more on the original topic. It seems like we have a lot of married guys here too. Do you think you're accorded the proper respect by your wives?
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Basically, we think it's stupid to respect authority to uphold tradition.
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Obviously not, burqas are crazy. Abayas are better and work just as well. But we digress, I'd like to hear more on the original topic. It seems like we have a lot of married guys here too. Do you think you're accorded the proper respect by your wives?
proper respect? oh come on...it's your husband, not father.
Re: So married ladies
wife is a wife not a maid/slave
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my wife is shackled so dont have to worry:D
Re: So married ladies
@yeswekhan, I think you have a very dated image of what a relation between a wife and husband is like. Keep in mind that she is not your pet, slave^^ or fourteen year old daughter. She is your wife, your equal, your partner/humsafar. Yes she needs to respect you and keep you izzat in mind, but so do you. And I don't think she would feel that YOU respect her if she has to ask for permission before she goes out even if it is for "symbolic" purposes.
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Most of the times, I already know that my husband will allow me the certain thing I am asking the permission for, still I like to ask for his permission.. its good if one couple’s relation is strong enough to understand the situations but its always good to respect your spouse and I think (my opinion), this is one of the ways/ action to make him feel respected and dominant..
and yes, its not only about going out, its about anything which requires permission (ofcourse not drinking water, having meal, sleeping blah blah 
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kiya hoa?? 
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I'd cherish my wife's izzat.
Re: So married ladies
nothing…I was just having a moment.
Re: So married ladies
"Be a servant to your husband so he can be a slave to you"
nuff said.
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LOL 
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Why would one want her husband to be a slave? 
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Well it's not a literal thing, more a guide to behaviour. Just something I read in an Islamic book today. basically it just suggested that in order for a women to expect the same thing and more back from her husband, she's gotta lead by example sometimes.
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oh okay…thanks for explaining. :k:
Re: So married ladies
Well it's not a literal thing, more a guide to behaviour. Just something I read in an Islamic book today. basically it just suggested that in order for a women to expect the same thing and more back from her husband, she's gotta lead by example sometimes.
isn't the husband a partner on equal footing??
why should she be the one to make sacrifices first??
isn't it his responsibility too to work towards the marriage?
why does he get teh upper hand???