Spock
April 8, 2011, 5:28pm
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Re: so Lonely
Guys are generally aloof in such situations because of their capability to switch off their thoughts and the distractions they can afford (work, friends etc) but sometimes the situation affects them too.
In my case, I felt lonely too. All my friends got married an year ago. I am the oldest of them all and I felt merely a tag along for best part of last year. My life had stopped and I started feeling both stagnant and out of place. But gradually, I realized that this is how Allah swt has designed my life for me. And that I need to prioritize my life and then move on.
Point is, Allah must have plans for me too. and for anyone else out there who is in similar situation.
It’s actually worse for guys, I’ve heard people in Pakistan pointing at guys in their 30s and 40s saying, is key andar koi ‘nuqs’ (defect) hai joh shadi nahee karta! im not kidding
Imagine what those guys would feel if they hear that.