So ladies....

…a few months into your new marriage you learn your husband had one huge blow out of a bachelor party. Strippers etc the works.

Kosher? Not Kosher?

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poop

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Not kosher

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And why not missy?

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How iron-clad is the pre-nup and how much do I get?

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Depends!

Strippers and a show is not that serious. But any further hanky panky is cheating, which therefore, is major non- kosher.

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As a guy I shall inform you right now strippers are in fact not cheating. The act of cheating only occurs when you have had consensual sex with a woman. In this day and age women can force men to have sex. Ruffies etc are not just limited to female victims these days.

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The Question CM can be reversed for the men too ...

and if i found out that she did ..the works ..i d be regretting that i married the wrong lass

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:eek:…:k:

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Absolutely it can and you are completely entitled to regret it. I know I would. A woman with no sharaam or hayaa. Tsk tsk. Women should know better.

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what is kosher, not kosher?
sorry for my ignorance!

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NOT kosher… if it’s happened once it can happen again and i’m not okay with it :naraz:

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It's not because it's cheating. Just that I married my husband with a certain understanding. Though I'm sure it's natural to fantasize about such activities, he would not think it's okay to actually participate. If he did, it changes a lot.

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:hmmm:Depends, has he found out that I had strippers on my hen night

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^:omg:

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Totally Kosher as long as it doesn't match or surpass what I did! A guy needs to have his fun!

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^Let's get married.

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Cold feet

Marriage? One man for life? Ummm I pass.

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We could be one of those swinging couples?

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Maybe..

Was there touching?? (I know lap-dancing clubs say guys aren't allowed to touch the girls while they're dancing)..

Stripper in private room (with 'extras') no way..

Oh and watching strippers is only ok anyway if he's not got double-standards (ie would go mental if I did the same..) Why not take fiancee with him so she can keep an eye on him and maybe get a dance herself lol.. I would prefer that to him doing god knows what behind my back..